[GammaZeta]

Dude, don't give up any of your beliefs for a fraternity or change who you are.


Unfortunately that is the world we live in and you are starting to experience. In the real world, the people who get promotions usually aren't the most qualified. Maybe they make the boss laugh. Maybe they suck up. Maybe they sleep with the boss.

A fraternity has many parts to it. It does have a drinking/social part. It does have a traditional and a ritualistic part.

I'll tell ya, I didn't join a fraternity to go through rituals and learn creeds and so on. I did it for the girls, the parties, the fun, the friends. I did it for the brotherhood, the memories.

Keep your head up bro. We would have taken you in if you went to Umass.