I got my bid this morning!!!!!
 

thanks to all of the GC's for so much help and advice

It's not very nice to stop there. :( Where did you find your home?

Congratulations by the way! :)

I'm keeping that hush hush until I am official. :)

Official as in officially a New Member/Pledge?

Or officially initiated as a Sister?

Is this an NPC sorority?

Yeah...cause one you get your bid and accept, you are official. WTF?

Maybe she didn't "get the call" so she knows she got a bid. But it isn't "official" yet becuase it has yet to be "handed " (i.e. extended) and accept the bid. Or how ever offical bidding might work at her campus.

And if she prefed only one group, then she would know which group. But again, it wouldn't be "official"... yet.

Oh yeah, true dat. Didn't think about that one. Too early and I need more coffee

i did get and accept my bid. I meant official as in after I go through pledge and get initiated. Yes it is an NPC chapter!!!

?????

Unless there's some sort of rule that says NMs can't be depledged once given a bid, I'm not mad at her for keeping it to herself until initiation.

Huh????? Once you start the new member process in an NPC chapter.....you are officially a new member and you can publicize this...... If you don't want to tell us on GC that is one thing, but just know that you can let your friends and family know....

It's very difficult to force a NM in an NPC sorority to depledge once she's accepted a bid. The NM would pretty much have to commit murder. But if greekintraining doesn't want to share with us which sorority she's just joined, that's her prerogative.

Thanks for the clarity. I suppose I was *ass*uming that just as easily as people on GC could derail her receiving a bid, they could derail her initiation.

quite a choice of words...

Agreed.