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Dionysus 07-30-2008 06:42 PM

Superficial Dealbreakers
 
We've had numerous threads on serious dealbreakers (who would date a drug addict?)...but I don't think we ever had any threads about more superficial dealbreakers.

I don't care if the person is 10 in looks, intelligence, and personality...if they SMACK while eating, it is over! I absolutely cannot stand when people smack on their food, there's no way I'll date someone who does it. I'd rather hear nails go down a chalkboard.

Scandia 07-30-2008 06:51 PM

Would bad teeth be considered a superficial dealbreaker?

And there are some cultures that I do not feel comfortable dating someone of, nor do I feel sexually attracted to people from certain parts of the world.

Unregistered- 07-30-2008 06:54 PM

I know this is really bad, but I've always said that I refuse to date any man's who's Filipino.

Not because I don't like his looks -- I'm just afraid I'm related to them.

LucyKKG 07-30-2008 07:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by OTW (Post 1688656)
Not because I don't like his looks -- I'm just afraid I'm related to them.

Haha that's really funny but creepy!

DSTCHAOS 07-30-2008 07:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Scandia (Post 1688650)
Would bad teeth be considered a superficial dealbreaker?

No that's hella serious!!!

Quote:

Originally Posted by OTW (Post 1688656)
I know this is really bad, but I've always said that I refuse to date any man's who's Filipino.

Not because I don't like his looks -- I'm just afraid I'm related to them.

LOL. Good! I can have starang21 all to myself. :p

Cyberly, of course.

Benzgirl 07-30-2008 07:05 PM

There are certain nationalities that I will not date (those who shall remain nameless), because they have a history for fooling around on their wives and girlfriends.

lillady85 07-30-2008 07:05 PM

I hate it when someone does not know how to properly use a knife or fork to eat. It irks me. No need to hold it like a club!

VandalSquirrel 07-30-2008 07:06 PM

Not squeezing the toothpaste from the bottom drives me crazy. If he's willing to use the toothpaste thing that flattens it as you go up or to not share toothpaste, that's fine.

I know it is really odd, but it bothers me.

epchick 07-30-2008 07:08 PM

I don't like to see food, so if they don't know to properly eat & talk then I don't wanna know them.

PrettyBoy 07-30-2008 07:15 PM

Jacked up feet/legs, cankles and anything fake....nails, hair, ect ect.....

ETA: and fast dressing, ignorant skank hoes too.

Basically, for me, the main foundation in a woman that's a must have 1st before the physical, are:

Christ: She puts God 1st in all things
Family: Her Family background needs to be similar to my own
Education: She's got to be educated.

If she has those three things then we can talk. Outside of that, I wouldn't give her the time of day.

KSUViolet06 07-30-2008 07:21 PM

*poor tablemanners
*poor grammar
*people who go out Thursday-Saturday and party all the time
*music snobs (you know, guys who will only listen to artists that no one else has ever heard of and thinks people are lame if they *gasp* like an artist that's played on the radio).
*people who don't like reading
*people who can't have a conversation without swearing
*people who snore
*receding hairlines
*don't believe in God
*balding
*jacked up teeth
*emo types who wear tight jeans and more makeup than I do
*meathead types who are totally tan and stereotypically "hot."
*people who care too much about their cars and spend a ton of money on them.
*people who wear baggy clothes
*people who talk about how "psycho" their exes were.
*people with kids (sorry- it's too much drama for me at this point in my life)
*people who talk about money all the time (either how much they have or how broke they are)
*criminal records of ANY kind (I don't care if it's "just public intox" as one guy put it)
*likes to drink all the time (like when we are not in a social situation)
*SMOKERS

OtterXO 07-30-2008 07:33 PM

I like KSUViolet's list style :)

* getting irrationally angry over stupid things
* being a one up-er
* having jacked up teeth
* dressing like a hillbilly
* dressing like a rapper
* dressing like Pete wentz
* don't like dogs
* wine snob
* driving a convertible
* driving a hummer

BabyPiNK_FL 07-30-2008 07:52 PM

If he wears SKINNY JEANS! nooooo!!!! lol
(But I think that goes under "dressing like Pete Wentz").

If he dresses like it's 1987-also deal breaking.

Jill1228 07-31-2008 12:14 AM

Quote:

people with kids (sorry- it's too much drama for me at this point in my life)
I don't blame you on this one. You don't need the baby mama drama. You are too young for that crap

(In all fairness, I was over 30 when I got involved with someone who had a kid...I later married him)

But my deal breakers:
jacked up teeth
don't like animals
can't speak properly
bad table manners and basically no home training

cheerfulgreek 07-31-2008 12:36 AM

Kids
Fugly
Bad hygene
Messed up teeth/toothless
Bald/going bald
Tatoos
Ear Ring(s)
Jobless
Not Motivated
Beards
Cocky assholes
Married, but says he's separated and getting a divorce.:rolleyes:
Wimpy/doormats
Overweight
Muscle Bound sweaty guys...yuck.
Spiked haircuts
Doesn't care about his appearance


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