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PANTHERTEKE 05-18-2008 12:37 PM

Talk to some of the more influential brothers (e.g. executive board) and see if they can get him to stop.

But if you feel the situation is severe enough, does your chapter have some kind of Board of Advisers or Membership Quality Board that you can present this situation to and bring the guy up for expulsion? If it does, and you feel it's right to do, then do that.

If nothing works then disaffiliate. Nothing is worse than being in a chapter where you're not accepted and you strongly dislike one or more brothers.

PANTHERTEKE 05-18-2008 12:50 PM

Np.

But let me clarify some things...

I didn't mean to sound like you should just try to have the guy kicked out, or disaffiliate if things don't work out your way.

This guy is your brother so he should be able to see where you're coming from and respect you and your wishes. So I'd also suggest to talk to him again, sternly, and make sure he gets the point. If he STILL doesn't, then try the advice I originally posted.

DSTCHAOS 05-18-2008 01:02 PM

This doesn't sound legit to me.

starang21 05-18-2008 02:04 PM

whoop his ass.

starang21 05-18-2008 02:06 PM

hold up. is he mocking indians? yea, whoop his ass.

smiley21 05-18-2008 02:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1653428)
This doesn't sound legit to me.


I thought the same thing before I even saw your post.

mystikchick 05-18-2008 04:30 PM

Alright, Juspreet, I have several questions for you after watching that video:

1) Why do you all have English accents? Or does your chapter simply have large numbers of English guys pledging?

2) There's nothing about that video that comes off as malicious or homophobic, and it's been up for a year. Care to explain why you're only now getting upset about it?

3) New Zealand?

nate2512 05-18-2008 04:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mystikchick (Post 1653495)
Alright, Juspreet, I have several questions for you after watching that video:

1) Why do you all have English accents? Or does your chapter simply have large numbers of English guys pledging?

2) There's nothing about that video that comes off as malicious or homophobic, and it's been up for a year. Care to explain why you're only now getting upset about it?

3) New Zealand?

Seems like more middle eastern accents to me.

Tom Earp 05-18-2008 05:02 PM

Hm, did not go to far did it?

So, how about it not be blown up into a BS thread?

nate2512 05-18-2008 05:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tom Earp (Post 1653513)
Hm, did not go to far did it?

So, how about it not be blown up into a BS thread?

Then how are we supposed to have fun Tom? If everyone agreed 100% of the time, then this place wouldn't be nearly as exciting.

Rudey 05-18-2008 06:33 PM

You should demand an all male speed dating night at the chapter house. That'll teach them!

nate2512 05-24-2008 02:08 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Juspreet (Post 1653608)
Umm... What you say? :rolleyes:

Just quit, you obviously aren't cut out for Greek Life so you might as well give it up now before you waste your time on something that you'll later view as a waste.

nittanyalum 05-24-2008 02:17 AM

LOL, cosign. Although I'm quite sure we'll be hearing from the brothers at Delta Iota Kappa soon trying to recruit him. It's the same pattern, every time, wait for it...

GooniePDT49 05-24-2008 04:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nate2512 (Post 1653518)
Then how are we supposed to have fun Tom? If everyone agreed 100% of the time, then this place wouldn't be nearly as exciting.

Yeah if we agreed 100% of the time I woulda never gotten box row seats to General Shermans "March to the Sea"! I love this country, the only place where you can disagree and not get imprisoned, and you can wink at a white woman, except in the South! ha ha ha j/k

icelandelf 05-24-2008 01:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Juspreet (Post 1657176)
Excuse me if this is rude but what is DIK?

I believe it stands for Desert Island Keeper :rolleyes:


Thanks for your concern!


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