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1. Are you Greek? If so, many of the organizations have an introduction thread. It would be nice to visit one if you expect much interaction, or to be taken seriously.

2. What does drinking in your letters have to do with discretion? It's about respect. The title, and your first post don't really clear up what you're asking.

3. How discreet is posting the "rules" on a public message board?

^^^^ took the words right from my fingers. :D

I always remember my pledge mother saying, "The D in Alpha Delta Pi stands for Discretion!" If I were to see her tomorrow, I'd probably say it to her!