Alumni being shut out?!?
 

please excuse my boldness in writing this post, If you were insultedd that was not my intent. Myself and many other alumni sisters are greatly hurt by the decision made my the chapter. Please excuse my boldness.

I say the following in Greek love and respect.

You have put entirely too much personal and sororal information in your initial post. This is something that should have been addressed to your friends who are also your sisters first, and then to perhaps then to Dr. Leslie Odom Miller, your national Vice President, Alumnae Chapters.

Your role as an alum is now different. YOUR chapter should now be whatever your alumnae chapter is.

Of course your MITs have more rights and privileges than alumni. From a liability perspective, an alumni has NO privileges on a college campus. They are guests.

My rule as an active alum of Alpha Phi Omega (and several other orgs at my college) is this: come when invited. Since you ostensibly should be in an alumnae chapter, your presence around the undergrads is at their pleasure. If they need guidance, or you have concerns, go through their advisor or whatever other SAI volunteers you have to oversee them. I am sure they would not appreciate you putting their chapter business on the internet.

It reads like she was trying to put them on blast.

If that was her intent....malice and not negligence.... that is really, really unfortunate.

I have to say, if your immediate response is to go on the internet and to post all of your personal information and your chapter's business, I can see why they don't invite you to stuff.

Everyone, the op has by her own admittance acknowledged that she should not have posted the info and has asked that it be closed, to which I have obliged.

NP