I lost my son KAP Jr.
 

Fellow Nupes,

I just got word that my son, "KAPital's PHINUst Jr" passed away in childbirth and my lady almost passed away in the process. Right now she is really depressed for a multitude of reasons, and I'm trying to cheer her up, but she won't even speak to me.

I say all this to say that the fellow Nupes in my chapter have been very supportive despite my loss and I appreciate being in the Bond all the more as a result.

My prayers are to my lady and both our families during our time of grief.

Thanks for reading.

YITB,

KAPital's PHINUst

Eventhough you only addressed it to your frat, I think others on GC would like to extend thier condolences to you as well. I will keep your family in my prayers.

That's the saddest news anyone can share, and I'm so sorry you and the baby's mom (and your families) have to go through it. I wish you all peace in this very difficult time.

So truly sorry for your loss..........

Um Um Um! I didn't realize you were going to be a father. I missed that memo! It's really unfortunate to hear!

I am so sorry. My prayers are with you and your family.

I'm so sorry :( I will definately keep you and your family in my thoughts.

My heart aches for you and your family right now. Please accept my deepest sympathy. I will keep you in my prayers.

Wow, I am soo sorry this happened. I would not wish it on anyone! PLEASE help each other through this grieving process and GET COUNSELING as soon as possible afterwards. It is not something easy to deal with.

I am so sorry. I hope your lady is doing better physically this evening and my very best wishes to the both of you and your families in this difficult time.

Sorry to crash ... I am truly sorry for your loss and for the grief that you and his mommy must be feeling. I pray that you both can find peace, that your lady is able to heal with the utmost support and help, and that you have the strength to hold your little family tight.

sidenote:

Perhaps we can all light a candle for you and for all those who have lost children (this is a sheer coincidence I saw this today) ...

The Compassionate Friends Worldwide Candle Lighting (from About.com)
http://dying.about.com/od/rememberin...andlelight.htm

"...Every year since 1997 on the second Sunday in December The Compassionate Friends (TCF) hold a Worldwide Candle Lighting in memory of all children who have died too soon.

The event is held at 7:00 p.m. for one hour in every time zone to create a 24-hour wave of light that encircles the globe to honor and remember all children who have died. As candles go out in one time zone, they are lit in the next zone, to create a virtual 24-hour memorial--candles to encircle the globe.

read more here: http://dying.about.com/od/rememberin...andlelight.htm

Sorry for your loss...:(

Thoughts and prayers to you and your wife :(

NUPE,

Sorry to hear of your loss. Be strong.

Phi V

I am very sorry to hear about your loss. Lifting you and your family up in prayer...