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Motivation in your chapter?
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Chapter business is chapter business, end of story. If you need to ask for ideas to help with motivation, then ask. But don't say, "We need motivation cause Sally got all huffy and walked out." Sally will read this, so will her closest sisters, and they'll be miffed. And you've lost all chances of actually motivating your chapter. |
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Seriously??? Seriously?????? http://scienceblogs.com/ethicsandsci...6/04/irony.gif |
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Secondly, regardless of it saying "Sigma Sigma Sigma" at the top of the forum, it's still a public venue where anyone is free to read and comment. /Just sayin' |
Alpha Frog and Sock Puppet are right. I saw your location (university and which branch) before you removed it.
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While AlphaFrog & SockPuppet might have been a bit more frank than I would've been, they are right in that this is personal chapter business that needs to be discussed with your officer board and chapter.
I will suggest talking to the older women and asking them why it is that they no longer think Sigma is "fun." |
In my opinion this is absolutely the right venue to ask these types of questions. That doesn't mean she shouldn't take advantage of her advisers, but realistically there are thousands of people on here from hundreds, maybe thousands of chapters.
Many of them are advisers, officers, ex-officers, past presidents, or just members with personal and relevant experiences they can share. Thats a resource far in excess than any handful of well meaning people with the title of chapter adviser could match, and it would be a shame not to tap into it. The people that suggested you not post your actual chapter information are probably right, although over vehement about it. And its more to protect yourself from being hassled than anything. Its not that posting this chapter stuff is bad, but it could get back to some of your chapter members and cause misunderstandings and drama. Try doing a search for motivation you should find some useful threads. And I am sure there will be others that will post here for you. |
My biggest suggestion is to find out WHY girls aren't excited about Sigma. I remember you posting at one point that you are sisterhood chair or something like that. Are girls not coming to sisterhood events like you would want them to?
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Addressing your question... motivation is a hard thing to create. There are always going to be a couple people who aren't going to be motivated. My advice is to ignore them and focus on the women who either are already motivated or maybe could be if they had a little encouragement (a note in their mailbox recognizing something they did recently might be all it takes). Once other members see how much they are missing out by not being involved, that itself might be motivation. Do you have a way to recognize members who do a good job on something from meeting to meeting? If not, consider starting something like that! Work into the tradition something having to do with sorority (sailler girl of the week, violet of the week, carebear of the week) so it will stick. Maybe a purple carebear with a EEE T-shirt that you pass around the chapter, the recipient giving it to someone she feels is doing an awesome job the next week? |
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I think everyone (regardless of affiliation) goes through stages where they lose interest. One thing that worked for my chapter was at the beginning of each semester to hold a "vow renewal" for all initiated members. Go to your local craft store (Michael's, Hobby Lobby, etc.) and look for some cheap rings. You can find some in the aisles geared towards cake decorating. When each member has "renewed" their vows, give them each a ring that they can wear. Each time they look at their ring, they'll remember why they joined Tri Sigma and their vows. I believe this is on the National Website in the Horizons section. Rebecca :p |
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