Man cannot have girlfriend for three years
 

Wow...there are so many holes in that sentance, I don't know where to begin.

Plus, if he truely is that severe of a co-depentant, he doesn't need to have an acutal relationship going with a woman to set him off. Any percieved slight from someone who is more than an aquaintance could potentially set him off. And, you don't have to be "romantic" or even "intimate" (in the strict sense of the word) to have sex, which is another potential problem.

i know a few other people that need this "order" lol

I was just thinking of the guys I dated who should have been unable to EVER have a girlfriend. :o