college dating
 

Just wanted to know if any of you college girls would be willing to share any funny horror stories about loser fraternity guys you have dated in the past (no names please).

yeah.... like the guy i hooked up with for four months last year and it's debatable whether or not we were actually even dating.... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/rolleyes.gif ..... the same guy who tried to hook up with me again a couple weeks ago (and who was shot down).....

Weeeel, lets see. Just a few weeks ago this guy asked me to dinner and a movie. He was kinda cute. H'mmm, sounds nice, huh? We went to an Italian restaurant just off campus and doubled dated with a sorority sis of mine.

After we ordered, the dude started playing footsie with me. Even took off his shoe. I didnt know whether to laugh or hit him. At first I thought it must be some kind of weird joke, but noooooo, I can tell he's into this, cuz he's throwing me these intense looks. Ewwwww, I just wanted to bolt. I could barely eat my dinner. Looking back, its kinda dorky funny, but at the time, I wasn't smiling.

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"It's a long long road, it's a big big world, we are wise wise women, we are giggling girls." ~Ani DiFranco~

A guy I sort of new had just been initiated into his fraternity. We ran into each other shortly after and he asked me to his first formal so I said sure...I didn't really know the guy, and he was a few years younger than me, but hey...a chance to get dressed up, and if we didn't hit it off...no harm done. Well, we had fun, but I wasn't really interested. However, he was, and on the way home he asked me if I'd go out with him again.
So here I'm stuck in the car, thinking...I can't ruin this guy's first formal by turning him down..I'll go out with him one more time...let him down easier then...
Well, that didn't end up happening...my poor bleeding heart couldn't bear to hurt this guy's feelings... so we ended up being together for like, 3 months before I sucked up the courage to break things off with him, and then I felt so bad for dragging it on so long http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/frown.gif
I probably could have done it sooner if his brothers weren't so cool...I didn't want them to hate me, which they ended up not anyway...I found out later they were suprised we stayed together for so long when we were so different! (esp. the age difference...junior to freshman when I'm used to dating guys that are done with grad school!)

If its ok I'd like to hear from the guys also regarding their unfortunate "dating" experiences with sorority girls.




[This message has been edited by kmullini (edited November 04, 2000).]