A question for the ladies:
 

How approachable are you?

Ok say you met a guy in line somewhere . . . and he struck up a conversation with you, you got a cool vibe, he was flirty, and he asked for your number . .

Would you be willing to give him it (the real one) and be willing to pursue something on such a casual meeting?

Should guys try and apporach women they meet casually like that?

Sure, I would give my phone number. I have no problem saying if I later get a wierd vibe, "I'd rather you not call me anymore."

Assuming I was single, I probably would. But only with a really good vibe, and only if it was a lengthy-enough conversation for me to know he's not a weirdo.

I would do no such thing.

Even if he's flirty, you get a good vibe from him, and has good convo with you, there's no guarantee that deep down, he's psycho.

This is going to sound paranoid, but...

One reason I don't mind is that I can usually find out a birthday in the first couple of conversations. My mother works for the DA and she runs a background check before I accept a date with someone I don't know well.

I know it sounds a little out there, but I've had too many nice guys who turned out to be more than a little psycho.

I'm gonna say flat out that I am not the most easily approachable person out there.

But then again, it depends. If I was feeling him and he's nice and all that, maybe.

I guess my philosophy has become more "never say never" - who would've thought I'd hit it off with someone I met at a wedding?

I'm also not the easiest to approach, I'm sure, but hopefully I wouldn't be downright rude to someone who started up a conversation with me. Who knows where it'd go from there? :)

I'd give him my email address, but not my phone number. I hardly ever pick up my phone for people I already know, let alone some random.

I'm like that, but a person can use your email address to look up all kinds of stuff about you. I used to do that to people all the time. I'm trying to be more open to meeting new people (I've been known to have stranger anxiety), but I don't know...I've given guys my number after talking for 5 min. and others have had to wait for weeks....it all depends on where we meet and the vibe I get from you.

Screennames? Email addresses?

-Rudey
--Wow.

He can look up all he wants about my email address, I've got like 20. He most likely would get my spam email address until I know him better anyway. I wouldn't want some stranger filling up my real email inbox. :)

I'm not really the type to share personal info with a guy that hits on me anyway. I prefer to be the one who approaches a guy & gets his phone number/email address/whatever. :)

Are you saying we're in line at the grocery store comparing cucumbers or something like that?

If he suggested we go get a cup of coffee or something in a public place, I would do that before giving him my phone number.

I would def. give a guy my number if he had a cool vibe. If it doesn't work out so what, just dont' answer your phone when he calls.