Would you forgive your spouse if he/she cheated?
 

Since that other thread started.

Not in a million years.

A girlfriend cheating is something else, that to me is a lot easier to deal with: she's gone...

But if the two of you both stood in front of God, and said all that jazz....there's no way I could ever pull back on that...

Shit, to me, that's cause for letting her AND the other guy meet their maker and their fate...but that's another thread.

I wouldn't forgive a spouse or boyfriend for cheating.

I would not forgive. My trust could never be regained.

I heard the other day on "Today" that 40% of wives and 60% of husbands cheat at sometime during their marriage. That's totally crazy!

Nope. It would be over because I would never be able to trust him again.

Well...
 

Once a cheater, always a cheater....just my opinion!

Absolutely not, maybe they did stand before God and said all that jazz, but infidelity is biblical grounds for marriage, so I wouldn't have a problem. I have other reasons (besides family and friends being in this situation) that I would never forgive my husband for cheating on me. Not an option, he does, he's gone.

Yeah, I probably could if I truly thought he was sorry. However, I freely admit that I could possibly be feeling this way because I could never imagine him cheating on me.

I would beat her. hahahhaaha

-Rudey

I might be able to forgive, if I was financially compensated accordingly, a la in the style of Kobe Bryant's wife

Re: Would you forgive your spouse if he/she cheated?
 

Here is an added dimension to the question.....

What about EMOTIONAL infidelity? NO physical contact (cheating as commonly defined) but rather an intimacy on an emotional level?

Is that an 'affair'? How do you deal with that?

;) CHEERS!

HELL NO! If they can't be faithful to you about that, what else are they keeping from you?

Never. My trust in him would be 100 percent gone.