how do you control....
 

your anger

the other day i got into a heated argument with my best friend. then what started out as an argument turn into a brawl, on her behalf. it was crazy because when it became physical, i was calm but defensive then we both ended up saying things that we didn't mean and there was a bloody nose, scratch and a track of hair weave located on 35th street between 7th and 8th avenue. *ahem*

she attacked me first.

there are very few things that get my angry but once the button is pushed, that's yo ass.

i've had fights in my life and 7 times out of 10 is me control the other person who is running up on me. most of the time it's on the job, working with the kids on meds or working at the club as a bouncer.

help me out here because i feel the anger building and i do not want to explode, then you'll see me on the front page of daily news either whupping someones ass or my mug shot in central book.


when was the last time you got into a fight?



btw, ignore my fight club quote

Well, I've tried (instead of yelling that is, not punching) singing a song that I like when I feel like I am about to get really angry, it tends to work pretty well because it calms me down. I don't know that it would have worked in this situation. I can't say as I've ever been in a "real" fight before. I don't know...some of my friends have said stuff that makes me angry, but I've never wanted to punch any of them.:confused:

My last real "fight" was in 6th grade, I kicked a boys ass :D

Seriously, he was on the ground crying and I kept on kicking him....

ETA: I'm a physical person so when I'm angry I go out back with my trusty ballbat and beat the living crap out of a walnut tree near the edge of our property :) I'm one of those type that I just need to "get it out", once I'm finished I'm a-okay :D

I'm usually the one who breaks up the fights.

I fought with my (biological) sisters before..but it was like I was giving them the beat-down because I am stronger than them.

I've gotten into verbal fights numerous times this year...and trust me, they were ugly. I would knock the living daylights out of them if I lacked self-control.

For the most part, I'm non-confrontational in nature..dunno whether that's a good or bad quality to have.

ok...why do i feel like the only person that has been in physical fights on GC?


:rolleyes:

I'll meet you in Midtown and slap you. Just OK it and I'll be there.

-Rudey

;)


the day that happens i will tie you in a pretzel with your own schlong!!


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-you are still one of my favorite GC posters.

You do realize I'd slap you in your ear like in that Doogie Howser episode and get on a bus real quick right?

-Rudey

:p

i can't even think of a come back cause i saw that episode.

*LMAO*

Last time I got physical with a HUMAN was in eighth grade. I like punched this girl in the chest. Since then whenever I get extremely angry, I get physical with things. I once put a hole in a wall, threw my glasses at the fireplace (and it broke), put dents in a sibling's car by kicking it with hard boots......yada yada yada. I'm getting better. The last physical outburst I had was when I threw a hot fork at one of my (bio) brothers. That was like a year and a half ago.

The thing is that after I get super pissed like that, I cool down pretty quickly. I also get very embarrassed. I pretend like it never happened. Meanwhile, the "witnesses" are heated and they stay heated for a long time. I remember when I threw a fork at my brother, he stayed pissed at me for the whole weekend. I was only pissed for the next 30 minutes after it happened and went on with my life. Oh well....

i like to believe that i am a peace maker. but if someone is messing with my friends i won't hesitate to F' someone up.

i got into a really bad car accident a few weeks ago. my car is totally wrecked and i was very very angry and bitter with a lot of rage. so the next day i needed to relieve some stress and get a lil drunk. well, turns out there are some guys outside that were tryin to mess with my friend. once i heard, i didn't even hesitate. i just ran outside, saw a few random guys i didn't know and clocked one straight up in the jaw. he got knocked out cold. it was a great sucker punch. haha. immediately after that i swung at his friend right in the nose. good times. the great thing was, i was the first person to throw a punch, since they were in the stage of " wassup bitch, you wanna roll?" yeah all i did was just run and basically threw my whole body into this guys jaw. he was on the ground for a while. anywyas, me and my friends kicked these guyses asses. it was good and it was great getting all that rage out.

the last fight before that was at a bar in a restroom. my cousin had been dating some girl whose ex boyfreind was there that night. those two exchanged words but nothing else. well after i took a leak, i saw that the two had staretd fighting in the restroom. so i jumped on this dudes back, and wrestled him to the groudn and started punching his lights out, all while my cousin watched liek a bitch. some other dude hit me in the head, and i was like, " hey man...that hurt. i am gonna get you ". so i got up and went after his legs pile drove him against the wall. by this time my cuosin realized that i was fighting his fight for him and he started helping me out. thanks cuz. anyways, we took care of this 2nd guy pretty well and ran off.

previous fight before that. i was surfing late at night and couldnt see much. i had riden into another surfer on accident, which is a big no no. right OTW? anyways, apologized IMMEDIATELY. i felt really bad. well, the dude was really cool about it, we shook hands and went our seperate ways. anyways, i'm headed back to my car when all the sudden one dude rams me into my truck and i start to realize, oh shit this is on like donkey kong. me and him start wrestling and i get two clean hits on him. another guy runs in, and hits me in the back of the head. i punch this guy back and get him in a headlock somehow, but the other guy regains his strength and sweeps my legs. so then i'm on the ground. and at this point i am getting my ASS BEAT. all you can really do is just make like a seisure and act liek you are crazy, which i did. well, all of the sudden i hear a girl screaming with a southern voice, " I'm gonna call the FUCKIN COPS on YALL!!!!!" and she grabs her SHOE, NO JOKE...and THROWS it at these guys. YES. These dudes then are like what the hell, and run off. here i am, bloodied lip, swollen face, my side is hurting, gettin rescued by a lovely southern lady. She takes care of me, cleans me up and we keep in touch. Start dating for a little while. Turns out she is an Ole miss alum. So thats a big reason why i am an Ole Miss fan now. Cuz one saved my life!

Ok another time senior year of HS, i go to school with 3 of my cousins. One is in my grade, anotehr is a junior and anotehr is a freshman. Well my cousins are big pussies. As evident by my cousin who is my age watching me fight his fight for him. Well, the 9th grade cuosin gets picked on by some sophomore because apparently he is asian, and gets good grades?. So, ok I figure little kevin (the 9th grade cousin) can be a man try to stand up to this guy. well, he doesnt cuz he's a wuss. so my cousin charlie tries to get in this kids face. doesnt work. so then its time for bobby to step in. actually, bobby and all of his meat head buddies. see, i wasn't on the football team or bball team. i was on the surf team. but we were all really close. so all my good friends, who look at kevin as like a little brother get in this kids face. i think his name was matt. yeah. anyways, long story short. it was sad, the kid got his ass handed to him. we all got in a punch. it was as if he just took it cuz he knew he cuoldn't do much.

ooooh and another time we got into a brawl with another fraternity after an intramural volleyball game. woohoo. we won both the game, and the fight.

how about when i was in 9th grade. i was walking home from school, when suddenly a group of 4 cholos come out of the car and say, " wassup chino, where the fuck you from". OH LORD...ok, so i just embraced the ass beating i recieved. yeah, GOOD TIMES. turns out i got jumped by these guys because 1- i was asian 2- one of those guys' sisters had a crush on me and they didnt want me near her

yeah, guess who got the last laugh. a month later i ended up banging her anyways.



oh wait, one more. in 11th grade this one 12th grader slapped his girlfriend in the face. she cried on the spot. it was really sad. what was worse was she was my friend, and i knew this guy had a rage problem. so i got in his face. yeah, he punched me and i hit him back. then we just went at it. well, that weekend we saw each other at a party and we fought again. this time i threw him in the pool.

there are plently of more fights, but the ones i remember al ot.

all in all, i am a pretty peaceful laid back guy though. i SWEAR. no joke. i like to chill and relax. its just when people start acting liek idiots, i feel the need to kick their ass.

LMAO...ah huh!

Ahh ok Brawler http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/10/10_16_4.gif

:eek:


a man after my own heart!


he carries his own personal can of "i'ma whup yo ass for breathin'" in his back pocket







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disclaimer: greekchat in no way condones fighting of any kind. well, except if someone swips your parking space, if you got there first. then they deserve to have their asses whupped!

Re: how do you control....
 

Last Year, when I rode the late Night Bus on the way home and three guys gave the bus Driver a Hard Time. Since No one wanted to help the poor guy, I jumped in. glad I did it.

But other than that, I tried to walk away and Ignore that person.