...awww man
 

OMIGOSH!!! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif
Ruby, I am glad you responded to the replies... As for the negative comments, don't take 'em personally...(that's good advice for most situations you'll encounter in life). Some of us were/are just appalled at your question... I won't address your reasoning for asking your question either... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif

BUT ~~
<insert unwarranted advice from a woman interested in pursuing Membership in a Sorority>
If you are interested in possibly pusuing membership into a Sorority ( ) -- I would keep these type of inquires (i.e. what you posted in this forum ) on the DOWN-LOW... For real. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif
If you love Kappas (and no matter how some may lie, WE ALL LOVE 'em http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif ) support them another way... It sounds like you already hang out with Kappas a lot, so here are some other suggestions... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif

**Some campuses have Kappa Sweethearts, try that. Kappa Sweethearts are an Organized group of Ladies that basically support the Kappas on you campus
*No luck with the Sweetheart Org.? http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/frown.gif

...then

**Every campus has Kappa Groupies...Though informal in nature, they do the same things as the Sweetheart Orgs... and a lot more...
*Don't like the sound of that?? http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/frown.gif (I don't) http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/frown.gif http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/frown.gif

...then

**Date a Kappa (if you can tie him down long enough) http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/tongue.gif Maybe you will find the right Kappa -- and he will marry you... Then you will have a Nupe-4-Life -- HAHAHAHAHA...LOL!!! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif (I hope that doesn't offend the wonderful moderator of the board... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif)
*Can't get with that either? http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/confused.gif

...then

**...welllll -- I guess you're outta luck... From where I can see anyway. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif

But you will find your way. Whatever way that may be... You may figure out that loving Kappas is a WEAKNESS that you must overcome... but alas, cannot. I know I can't --- Daaaamn, Daaaamn, Daaaamn!!! :mad http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/frown.gifclenching my fists like Florida Evans from Good Times in the episode where she found out James was dead)

But whatever you do... I am sure will be okay. Heck, if you are bold enough to ask -- then I will assume you have the will-power to find a resolution appropriate for your needs...
...and another thing, it's really cool that you took all of the comments posted in stride. That shows a lot of maturity -- even though most of us out here feel the question was base. You go girl! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif

Thank you for reading my post... God bless y'all... Have a nice day.