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Originally posted by vivbanks
Hello Everyone,

I am new to this board but I come with questions. I'm interested in a sorority, I have been going to that sororities events for the last few months. I'm on a first name basis with the members and have become really cool with one in particular meaning hanging out outside of the sororities events. I have made my interest know and they have even given me tests and challenges already. The thing is that the member I am close with tells me to do something one way and she says this is to "protect me" and I trust her. But when around the rest of the girls they may tell me to do the opposite of what she has told me, and when I don't they get a little irritated and I feel intimated and insecure, like is this a test or something. I know that when it comes down to it you have to be voted on and if 5 girls are in your corner and the other 12 are not then you don't have a majority of votes. Can you tell me what you think, thanks

Because I feel like a nice person to day, I am going to reach out to you before your thread gets locked up by my Soror Moderators...

1. YOU MUST READ THE PEARLS OF WISDOM ON THIS BOARD!!!

2. YOU MUST DO A SEARCH TO SEE IF SUCH A TOPIC HAS BEEN PREVIOUSLY DISCUSSED--AD NAUSEUM...

3. MEMBERSHIP INFORMATION WILL ONLY GO AS FAR AS THE ALPHA KAPPA ALPHA SORORITY, INC WEBSITE...

4. WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN OVER THE LAST FEW WEEKS??? WE HAVE JUST GOTTEN THROUGH 2 SERIOUS THREADS REGARDING YOUR TOPIC AND MOST QUESTIONS WERE DISCUSSED... I GUESS FOR YOUR ISSUE:

TO BE EARLY IS TO BE ON TIME...
TO BE ON TIME IS TO BE LATE...
AND TO BE LATE IS OUT OF THE QUESTION...

and you missed your opportunity to EVER seek our advice in public...

The rest is up to you. I can tell you, you are going to need more self esteem and self love to join ANYTHING...

Service to all mankind has YET to be for the weak at heart...