Sweetheart sign?
 

I took the message down because I got the clarrification I needed.
Thanks to all that replied

greetings, soror sigma xi dove -- congrats on becoming a finer woman! :cool:

many things associated with sweethearts are regional AND temporal--meaning that depending on the era in time and the part of the country that one resides, one will see different manifestations of the group.

how do i know?

as someone who WAS a sweetheart of a fraternity in 1989 before becoming the Zeta Woman that I AM TODAY, and who has lived in different geographical areas, i have seen stuff come and go...

please PM me for the rest, 'cause i'd like to make myself clearer on some items not appropriate for a public message board. ;)

hope you're having a wonderful holiday weekend soror, and i hope to speak with you soon.

peace and blessings,
soror tru

I believe the Que Pearl handsign isn't exactly the same. Their middle and ring fingers do not touch their thumbs. And if they did I could care less, handsigns are a minor part of the sisterhood. IMHO.