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so i like this chick (lets call her Ashley) and she invites me over to her apartment to chill. Unfortunately i'm with my roommate and this other dude who we accidently ditch and thus no longer needs to be mentioned in the story... so before we get there i tell my roommate that were going to Ashleys apartment and that i think shes great, so he knows that I'm diggin her. We get there and i introduce them and whatnot and we 3 plus her roommate are talking for a while but then it starts to turn into my roommate flirting with ashley which starts to piss me off. Instead of causing a scene i tell everyone im tired and leave, as im leaving my roommate tells me he'll be down in a few minutes (we live in the same apartment complex). So im sitting here and its been 2 hours since those words left his mouth and he's still up there purportedly watching a movie (they dont have a tv in the living room either, which means they are most likely in her room).

Here's where I want your input: Should I confront my roommate about it, and say that its not cool that he was chillin with the girl i like for so long, or is that just me being a jealous ass...

Also, if i find out they were messing around, is screwing his hot ex-girlfriend of two years fair retribution?

What an asshole. I can not stand when my friends flirt with guys I like JUST becasue I like them.

You should def be pissed. And def go ahead and sleep with his ex. He deserves it.


ETA: OF course if you left she may be thinking "Oh he must not like me" and go ahead and get with your roomie.

Your roomate broke the buddy code of hitting on someone you like, especially since you told him about it right before you got there. Definitely let him know that is not cool. And as for finding out if they messed around I doubt he'd tell you the truth. Go to Ashley's later and find out what really happened. If she isn't interested in your roomate let her know that you are interested in her.

The whole sex as revenge doesn't solve anything. Don't stoop to his level.

Oh sex as revenge def solves everything

I agree with DGqueen.

Although, you shouldn't have brought another guy with you in the beginning stages of a relationship. Even if ashley doesn't dig your roomie, she probably liked the attention of two guys kind of competing over her.

Girls can be dawgs that way. Although if she does like you, she broke the cool code and was stupid. Maybe she just isn't worth it?

And his ex-gf is open game especially if he still digs her. Even if you can't bang her, you should start calling her and hanging out just to drive him nuts.

He broke the guy code unless you are really low on the social totem pole and had no chance anyway. The guy code has provisions for that.

Has she called you yet today? If not, thats not a good sign.

But again, the biggest mistake you made was to bring a guy with you like that.

You got cockblocked. The fact of the matter is that the cockblock is a major move. It is a move that will be experienced throughout your life. Everyone wants to cockblock you. If I saw you with this girl, I'd tell her you had the herp, and try and get on her, and I don't even know you.

That's how it works.

The question is will you simply accept the block? Once you take it, you're screwed. It'll always happen to you. Get back at him. Cockblock him. Spread some rumors...next time he's with a girl at a bar, pour a drink down the back of his shirt. Do what you gotta do.

And when you're done blocking him you tell him you're gonna go home with his girl and then put some water in his momma's bowl.

-Rudey

haha I'd rather just keep doing her than tell him... and whats with the water in momma's bowl?

Ummm that's funked up. You don't mess around with someone's past like that. All he did was cockblock you. You gotta cockblock back.

I put up the shasty mcnasty cockblock story of my sophomore year up in one of the threads on chit chat. It involved punching one of my dudes, cold beer cans touching vaginas, and rumors.

And the water in momma's bowl is saying the dude's mom is a dog...a bitch...get it? It's from the Dave Chappelle show with the Hater Awards.

-Rudey

You should fuck his ex-girlfriend and eat all his food. Room mates like that piss me off.

I've been thinking about it and now I think maybe you shouldnt sleep with his ex. Cuz like I had this whole deal where my friend stole the guy I liked and then I started sleeping with him while they were dating just to get back at her and then I liked him again and then I found out he was crazy and then he left a nasty note on my car that my mom found. Not good.

Just bang the Ashley chick and if she bangs your roommate shes a ho and you dont want her anyway.

I'm wondering why you even care...?

She's just another chick. There's a lot of them out there. If my buddy did that, I'd tell him he was being a charlie bravo, but any feelings I had for the girl would be gone.

Not that I wouldn't still hook up with her, but any chance of something further happening is out of the question.

Uh....

(1) If you liked her, why'd you leave her apartment? And when the roommate said, "I'll meet you downstairs," why were you like, "Sounds good"?

(2) You waited in the car for 2 hours?



If I were this girl, I wouldn't date you because you're just stupid.

if she's that easy, she's obviously not good enough for you.
I say move on and find something better.

lol nah i went back to our apartment which is like 200 yards away...

man, you got cockblocked like a bitch and you took like a sucka.

and do NOT try to fuck his ex, cuz all he did was cockblock you, and you took it like a bitch. bangin his ex is just waaaaay too low.

next time, if you really like a girl, dont be a sucka!. fight for her. no man is ever gonna get with a woman by walkin away upset waiting for 2 hours blah blah blah. that is something girls do!

oh, and btw...i put the water in the bowl for Rudeys mom all the time.

WHAT BIOTCH!