Kevin |
06-18-2004 01:48 PM |
I don't know if you're serious or not. I'll give you the benefit of the doubt. However, your tone leaves much to be desired. We've all heard sanctimonious outsiders telling us it's "Buying our friends", etc. Gross oversimplifications. I'm sorry that your roomie had a bad experience. I wouldn't recommend joining just ANY GLO chapter. Like any other organization, some chapters are great, some are not so great. You may do well to avoid that not so great chapter (or maybe she was just the wrong 'type' of person). Who knows?
I used to think much the same way. I thought of joining a fraternity as "Why would I want to get my ass beat in order to call someone my brother?" (or along those lines). I didn't know anything about fraternities. Then along came the opportunity to join a colony (which is basically a fledgling organization whose goal it is to form a chapter of whatever group on their campus).
My chapter essentially changed my college life -- and my life thereafter. I had a new group of close, dependable friends -- I already had a pretty active social life, but this was a welcome addition. I was able to meet a very diverse group of people. I was able to work with people towards common goals (Greek Week, grades, getting our charter, etc.). It's a hands-on way of learning how to be a leader, a follower, a businessperson, etc. There's nothing like it on campus.
It also opened doors to me which otherwise would never have been open. I only served in Student Government during my final year of school. But because of my reputation within my chapter, I was made chairman of a committee (the Judiciary) that had some critical decisions put in front of it -- and I did an excellent job according to all involved. When I took the role, I knew exactly what to do, how to run a committee, how to interpret actions through bylaws, Senate rules, etc.
Being a Greek is not something I'd recommend for everyone. Although, if you give it a chance, it can be a good experience.
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