Thoughts on Happiness
 

..........by Robert Louis Stevenson


1. Make up your mind to be happy. Learn to find pleasure in simple things.

2. Make the best of your circumstances. No one has everything and everyone has something of sorrow intermingled with the gladness of life. the trick is to make the laughter outweigh the tears.

3. Dont take yourself too seriously. Dont think that somehow you should be protected from misfortunes that befall others.

4. You cant please everybody. Dont let criticism worry you.

5. Dont let your neighbor set your standards. Be yourself.

6. Do the things you enjoy doing, but stay out of debt.

7. Dont borrow trouble. Imaginary things are harder to bear than the actual ones.

8. Since hate poisons the soul, do not cherish enmities, or grudges. Avoid people who make you unhappy.

9. Have many interests. If you cant travel, read about new places.

10. Dont hold post-mortems. Dont spend your life brooding over sorrows and mistakes. Dont be the one who never gets over things.

11. Do what you can for those less fortunate than yourself.

12. Keep busy at something. A very busy person never has time to be unhappy.

Just thought I'd share this tidbit with y'all. :)

One of my friends saw this quote on a loca,church sign...

"There is NO key to happiness. The door is always open."

:D
Silver

Desiterata
 

This one of my favourites.

I wish I could live by it. I enjoy it nonetheless.
I hope you'll enjoy it too.

Desiterata
(The philosophy for a serene and happy life)

Max Ehrmann 1872 - 1945


Go placidly amidst the noise and haste, and
remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible, without surrender,
be on good terms with all persons.

Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others,
even the dull and ignorant for they too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons;
they are vexatious to the spirit.

If you compare yourself to others,
you may become vain and bitter,
for always there will be
greater and lesser persons than yourself.

Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
Keep interested in your own career,
however humble; it is a real possession
in the changing fortunes of time.

Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the
world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many person
strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be good to yourself.
Especially do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and
disenchantment, it is as perennial as the grass.
Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.

Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline,
be gentle with yourself.

You are a child of the universe
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God
whatever you conceive him to be.
And whatever your labors and aspirations
in the noisy confusion of life,
keep peace in your soul.

With all it's sham drudgery and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be Cheerful. Strive to be happy.

I like that!! :)


ThetaPrincess24- I think those are thoughts on LIFE in general!
Those were great, thanks for sharing :)

Re: Desiterata
 

I like this!!!!!! thanks for sharing :)