i made up my mind
 

hello ladies im new to the board, i just want to say hi and how is everyone doing today?

well i made up my mind and i decided on the organization i wanted to join.
i just wanted to know if yall ladies have any advise for me.:) :p

yup! got some GOOD advice for ya...
 

...:::::...tru blu is speaking in a gentle tone of voice...:::::...

now, listen closely: "discretion is the better part of valor." ;)

sisterfriend, while i'm glad that you have a made up mind, do you think that the rest of the WORLD WIDE WEB should be privy to your personal decision like this? this is not a reality show...

suppose...you *don't* get accepted for membership?
suppose...you *change* your mind?
suppose...life *happens* and plans *change*?

i'm not trying to tear you down; just illustrating that perhaps a public posting of your enthusiastic interest may not be the best way to start off as an _interested_ ;) woman.

i wish you the best of luck in your endeavors, but please remember that there is a time and a place for everything, to consider choosing your words and actions wisely from this point out in your quest, and to keep in mind that we all were in your shoes at one point in time....

sisterfriend, i wish you peace and blessings...today and everyday.

Co-Signing
 

Soror-----You took the words right out of my mouth!

Ditto!
your next lesson is to learn and practice DISCRETION.

okay!! i will take that into concideration.