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Convinced 07-11-2001 11:22 AM

Sex with your Ex?
 
Is it ever a good idea?

AKA2D '91 07-11-2001 11:32 AM

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Originally posted by Convinced:
Is it ever a good idea?

LOL. If you need that "fix" and you don't have anyone else available, then yeah.


naturalbeauty08 07-12-2001 12:14 AM

I, personally couldn't do it because it would no longer be exclusive. For all I know he could've slept with someone the night before and it would be none of my business. Going from exclusivity to non-exclusivity is a hard thing for me... therefore I'd cut all sexual ties.
On the flip side it is familiar and you two know each other.
So it may be positive for some... but negative for me.

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...Taking control of my beauty... loving me for me...

novella000 07-12-2001 11:30 AM

I can't do it either...
I figure, we parted for a reason, why bring the sex back into the equation -- right? I dunno, maybe there's something wrong with my "drive" ... Cuz I don't really have a desire to "crank" unless I have a Man. I guess I need that other level there for me to feel him. I ain't sayin' I ain't never had no indiscretion (*ahem*). But it didn't feel okay, and I couldn't make a "thing" out of it... No sex with the "ex" for me -- until we get back together... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif

The Original Ape 07-12-2001 11:45 AM

NOT IF SHE'S CRAZY!!! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif

pointNclick 07-13-2001 12:18 AM

I have to agree with AKA2D '91. If I need a fix and he is available and willing (with no problems with the deal), then I'd go for it.

However, it would also depend on "why" he is an ex and if I could count on discrection and no abuse of the situation once the fun was over.

pNc

Ideal08 07-13-2001 12:23 AM

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Originally posted by The Original Ape:
NOT IF SHE'S CRAZY!!! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif
LMAO! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif Good point, good point, lol.

As far as the topic at hand, I don't really see a problem with it. As long as BOTH parties have TALKED about it, and are ok with the circumstances that surround the situation, whatever those may be, I say cool.


novella000 07-13-2001 12:27 AM

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Originally posted by The Original Ape:
NOT IF SHE'S CRAZY!!! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif
Sounds like someone has had issues...
TOA, would you like to share any anecdotes?? http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif tee-hee-hee


Conskeeted19 07-13-2001 01:13 AM

Hey I Am Back!


My answer to the question is ..........HECK NAW!!!!! Now if you believe that clap two times! hee hee hee http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif

The Original Ape 07-13-2001 08:28 AM

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Originally posted by novella000:
Sounds like someone has had issues...
TOA, would you like to share any anecdotes?? http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif tee-hee-hee

QUIT USIN' DEM BIG WORDS!!! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif


The Original Ape 07-13-2001 08:29 AM

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Originally posted by Conskeeted19:
Hey I Am Back!


My answer to the question is ..........HECK NAW!!!!! Now if you believe that clap two times! hee hee hee http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif

I'm STILL CLAPPIN'!!! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif


novella000 07-13-2001 11:49 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by The Original Ape:
QUIT USIN' DEM BIG WORDS!!! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif


Aiiight playa, a sista' gon' bring it down a notch... KnowhuImsayin?


112Soul 07-14-2001 12:16 AM

ha ha ha
Ha Ha Ha
HA HA HA

LOL

MMMMMmmmmMMMMMMmmmmm


Need I say more


112

novella000 07-14-2001 05:04 PM

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Originally posted by The Original Ape:
I'm STILL CLAPPIN'!!! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif


Hey OA, WHAT are you clapping??? http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif


The Original Ape 07-14-2001 09:48 PM

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Originally posted by novella000:
Hey OA, WHAT are you clapping??? http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif


I'm clappin' at Conskeeted! She said if I didn't believe her to clap twice; so I'm clappin'!



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