Another Question for you all....
 

If you had the opportunity to apologize to someone, who would it be?

WOW this is a wonderful question:

1. My father: For the times he called me and I hung up on him. When he died and even now in my quiet time it bugs me, even though I was just trying to hurt him the way he had hurt me but I am the one living with the hurt.

2. My mom: Apologize for a lot of the mess I put her through as a kid and a teenager.

3. Myself: For doing some stupid crap that has gotten me in some jacked up predicaments, (READ: CREDIT CARDS)

4. God: For not following His will.

There are more but this is a lot in and of itself.

I most want to apologize to my aunt. When my uncle(her husband) died I wanted to blame her for not letting me get closer to him. Now that I'm older, I realize that I was never far from him as a child. I used my anger to grieve. I hope I get the chance before I have to write in another post about what I most regret. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/frown.gif

Gosh, this one hit home.........

I would like to apologize to my Godmother. Sge was nearing her death and she'd been sick for such a long time that I thought that putting off the time she was asking me to spend with her would be ok.

I finally decided to let go of my so called busy schedule and spend some time with her.Those last two days were the best that we'd ever spend and it all ended so fast.

She was the one who protected me from those beat downs my mom was more than ready to give when I did something I had no business doing.....She was the one who would spend her last dime on things she knew I wanted and she didn't have much to begin with...

I would apologize for not spending the time I knew she wanted me to spend...and most of all, not letting her know sooner just how much she meant to me http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/frown.gif

When I was a young drunk I left a club with some friends. We stopped at a store and saw a brother with some VERY thick glasses. My friends made several comments that I found to be funny. I laughed and laughed and laughed. I finally realized that the guy was my cousin and a childhood friend. I was ashamed at my actions. I have always wanted him to know how sorry I am for my actions and that I realize how immature I was at that point in my life.

I like this topic!!

If I had a chance to apologize to someone, it would be my ex-boyfriend. We were friends for a little while, and then we were together for like 8-9 months. I broke up with him because I felt, he treated me so bad, he was a jerk, he didn't trust me, and was too suspicious.

Now...as I am more mature, and I am far enough from the situation to have an honest take on it, I think that the way he was in the end of the relationship was a result of how I was in the begining.

I was so ready to tell all my friends about how BAD our relationship was, and how much we argued, but I couldn't admit that I had given him reason to be that way. I am not saying that EVERYTHING was my fault, I am just saying that I realize my wrong-doings, little 'white lies', etc. in the begining, made him the way he was. And that a lot of my actions directly contributed to the downfall of our relationship.

We've been apart for like almost 2 years now, and if I saw or spoke to him, I'd apologize to him for not being fair in acknowledging my faults in the relationship, and sad to say...I want him back! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/frown.gif

I would apologize to all the members of AKA that I led to believe for 7 years that I was a member of their organization, I wouldn't stop... but I would apologize -- if I could.

http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif WTF?? http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/mad.gif

What do you mean, you wouldn't stop? You just gon' keep on lyin', huh? Whatever Clever. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/rolleyes.gif

Why apologize then? It doesn't mean anything if you are going to continue to do the same thing over and over. That's not why people apologize. Everyone seems to forget that small little detail...apologizing doesn't end with "I'm sorry." You know the saying about "actions speaking louder than words", right? Right!



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Don't even give her the pleasure nuff' said!
Anyway, i'm in the same vote as mspradalover! I would definately appologize to my last ex-boyfriend. I have a very strong personality and he was just too sensative for me I guess and I to pushed him away. I miss him a lot!

my mother...for not understanding her situations...but how could a child understand anyway...but that is who i would apologize to...

[This message has been edited by CelestialBlu1 (edited July 03, 2001).]

???this ain't for real...is it...it's gettin' TOO deep up in here... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif this thread should have been called "the confessional"...

[This message has been edited by CelestialBlu1 (edited July 03, 2001).]

I would apologize to my ex-boyfriend. I was very young and immature when we met. I also had a lot of baggage from other bad relationships entering into ours. So to say the least, he put up with alot. He was and is a strong, educated and dedicated man. I miss him alot. But in all honesty, I think us going seperate ways was for the best. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

Good question.

NOBODY! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif

[This message has been edited by The Original Ape (edited July 03, 2001).]

much respect...

i can't believe that you had the cajones to say that! well...i hope that you stop what you're doing and appologize.
but i have to admit when i read it i fell out of my seat laughing. that was indeed very bold.

anyway...

i would appologize to:

-a couple of ex's...sometimes when you are young and foolish you end ish on a note that probably could have been done in a much more reasonable fashion.

peace