The One Most Important thing about your mate
 

If there is one thing that your desired/current mate MUST have (no compromises), what would it be?


As for Nikki's mate, he must have INTEGRITY

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I will bless the Lord at ALL times His praise shall continually be in my mouth. (Psalms 34:1, KJV)

As for Nikki's mate, he must have INTEGRITY

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I agree with you Nikki, I think integrity is a must.

Okay, if we have to limit it to one thing ;-)

It would be INTELLIGENCE.

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Intelligence

If she can't hold a conversation then its not going to last. I once went out with a girl that talked about nothing but music videos and her hair. What the hell is that?!?!

He has COMPASSION.

I knew that I could trust, honor, and obey this man when first I saw that he was truly compassionate.

IMHO
A person whose heart is ruled by compassion has, by default: self love, integrity, honesty, passion, a desire to love, sincerity, strength, and the ability to give of themselves.

my man has all of dat, and den sum... I lub him.

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"Success usually comes to those who are too busy to be looking for it."
Henry David Thoreau

You may think that I am joking, but I am not. My mate must be able to CRANK! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif There are other things that I want as well, but he must be able to CRANK, IRON, DRIVE, LATCH. HOW EVER YOU WANT TO SAY IT http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif I AM VERY SKEERIOUS ABOUT THAT! AND YOU KNOW THIS MAN! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif

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skeet, skeet!!!(DRUNK OFF NIAGRA) http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif



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TRUE DAT!!!
Hahahaha... No tell us how you really feel!!!
But I feel you, seriously... He can be the mostfinestwonderfullest man in the world, but if da' pipe ain't laid right... He's not much more than a Nice Guy.

I had to step out of my Halo and Wings for a sec http://www.smilies.nl/devil/goodnevil.gif

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"Success usually comes to those who are too busy to be looking for it."
Henry David Thoreau

Girl, that is how I really feel! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif There are other things that I want him to have, but honey that is high high high on the list. Girl, you don't want me to really tell you about my prerequisites now do you. That's another chapter entitled SPECIAL FAVORS 101. Let me stop before Soror Regulator and dem delete my crazy self.

Original Ape yo azz is CRAZY! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif

Putting the beverage down! hee hee

True, but technique is something you can always work on. As long as you ARE attracted to the person, you can teach them what you like, no? I think that what I would want most in a mate is an ability to really share with me...when you get married that person becomes your best friend/lover/protector and I think that since communication
is so key in all of those things, I would want someone who is able to do that with me, and who makes me feel comfortable sharing with them.

My (future) mate must have CONFIDENCE in himself-the one thing that I cannot stand is men who feel the need to accuse their partners of being unfaithful & are always getting jealous for petty reasons because of their insecurities with themselves http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/mad.gif

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"Mind ya own, stay true to ya own, be ya own."

Peace and God Bless
*Classy_Diva5*

My foremost requirement is that he MUST be a MAN of God.

Now, after we've gotten our prayer and praise on...I'm with Conskeeted19 - he must be able to CRANK!

LovelyIvy, I agree with you 100%, you are correct. What I said was to be taken in good humor, although I meant it.
If my man & I had this problem we'd have to work REALLY hard on it. Really HARD. Thank GAWD that he...*ahem*... nevermind. Conskeeted, look what you done started!
I may have to make a phone call. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/tongue.gif

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"Success usually comes to those who are too busy to be looking for it."
Henry David Thoreau

Hey Conskeeted... Crank it up!!

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LOL. I need help

Chile, I hear dat!!! Tell the truth and shame the devil, 'cause you ain't never lied!!!!!
In addition he must have GOALS!!!! No goals no can do!!!!!

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"Don't hate me because I'm beautiful"

When da EAST is in da house....Oh my GOD!!!! DANGER!

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