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LuaBlanca 02-20-2004 12:30 AM

fraternity alumni initiation
 
hi all!

i was just wondering- do any of the national fraternities offer alumni initiation in the same way that the NPC sororities do?

MelodyCat 02-20-2004 12:58 AM

I know Alpha Tau Omega does, based on this thread: http://forums.greekchat.com/gcforums...threadid=46512

However, it looks like this was a very special case. I think an ATO would need to answer this further. :)


http://forums.greekchat.com/gcforums...&threadid=2527 was another case of a fraternity PNAM, but the original poster never said what happened with it.

breathesgelatin 02-20-2004 01:30 AM

In general, my impression has been that NIC fraternities do not offer Alumna Initiation in the same sense that NPHC and NPC groups do, in other words, for interested members of the community looking for service and siblinghoods. Their alumni initiates tend to be the "Honor Initiates" traditionally seen in NPC sororities until recent years--men of exceptional accomplishment initiated into the fraternity at conventions and whatnot.

This is the *general* case I have heard on GC but there are probably exceptions.

Rudey 02-20-2004 01:37 AM

Most of us actually believe in someone actually being a brother.

-Rudey

DeltAlum 02-20-2004 01:48 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Rudey
Most of us actually believe in someone actually being a brother.

-Rudey

So, what does it mean to be a brother?

Does it take being hazed? Going through rush? The Pledge process?

Or, does it mean believing in and adhering to the principles of the organization?

You can decide.

Delta Tau Delta does alumni initiations. In fact, we have initiated some people who aren't alumni, but who have done, or can do great service to the fraternity.

We do not do "honorary" initiations -- such as initiating a famous person. As I said before, our "alumni" initiates must have done, or be doing strong service to the Fraternity.

Rudey 02-20-2004 01:56 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by DeltAlum
So, what does it mean to be a brother?

Does it take being hazed? Going through rush? The Pledge process?

Or, does it mean believing in and adhering to the principles of the organization?

You can decide.

Delta Tau Delta does alumni initiations. In fact, we have initiated some people who aren't alumni, but who have done, or can do great service to the fraternity.

We do not do "honorary" initiations -- such as initiating a famous person. As I said before, our "alumni" initiates must have done, or be doing strong service to the Fraternity.

What you described as an alumni initiate sounds like an honorary initiate to me. When I think alumni I think of the people that just decide hey I want to be a part of ABC and I'm not in college, so I will go try now.

And hey maybe you got hazed, but I think a very fundamental aspect of being in most of our fraternities, I speak for mine, is that we join in college. Let's not pretend the college aspect is nothing and it's all about "principles". If that were true, fraternity after fraternity would drop all their houses, would drop risky college kids, expand into adults, etc. But they don't. So don't flaunt these high and might principles so much.

-Rudey

xp2k 02-20-2004 01:58 AM

If you already belong to a Local group, you could always help coerce your undergraduate organization into affiliating with a national fraternity.

My fraternity absorbed a local down in Atlanta this year and I think they are inviting all alumni to be initiated.

astroAPhi 02-20-2004 02:10 AM

The TKEs here have initiated 2 "alumni" members in the past 2 years. Both were exceptional members of the university and industry and expressed an interest in being part of the fraternity.

Though, I think it helped that the two men were the university president and a member of the Board of Trustees, and the latter was friends with the then Grand Hegemon of the entire fraternity. But from what I understand, both of them do a lot of volunteer work for the chapter and for the national organization.

LuaBlanca 02-20-2004 12:11 PM

just wanted to clarify i'm not asking for myself, ::ahem:: i'm a girl... hahah.

but thanks to those who responded.

Optimist Prime 02-20-2004 12:17 PM

we initated a couple of our dads

ATOtnBetaTau 02-20-2004 12:30 PM

Concerning honorary initiates in my fraternity, ATO does one at national conventions. Chapters may choose and elect an honorary initiate as they see fit, but a form has to be approved before the ceremony. As far as requirements, the standard I've seen is having a close tie with the Fraternity, such as being a pledge that never got initiated because of transferring, being an outstanding advisor, etc. However, I'm sure there are exceptions to the rule.

On the question of absorbed local fraternities and their alumni, I know that ATO gives the alumni of the abosorbed local the option of being initiated along with the chapter.

Jason

ThetaPrincess24 02-20-2004 03:45 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Rudey
What you described as an alumni initiate sounds like an honorary initiate to me. When I think alumni I think of the people that just decide hey I want to be a part of ABC and I'm not in college, so I will go try now.

And hey maybe you got hazed, but I think a very fundamental aspect of being in most of our fraternities, I speak for mine, is that we join in college. Let's not pretend the college aspect is nothing and it's all about "principles". If that were true, fraternity after fraternity would drop all their houses, would drop risky college kids, expand into adults, etc. But they don't. So don't flaunt these high and might principles so much.

-Rudey


Ditto Rudey!

aopinthesky 02-20-2004 04:07 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Rudey
What you described as an alumni initiate sounds like an honorary initiate to me. When I think alumni I think of the people that just decide hey I want to be a part of ABC and I'm not in college, so I will go try now.

-Rudey

You may not agree that AI is necessary or important, or even that it should happen, but please don't minimize the experience for those to whom it is very important and special. And no, I am NOT an Alum Initiate, but I do recognize their value to my organization.

phigamucsb 02-20-2004 04:37 PM

my buddy is a kappa sig and he told me that they do alumni initiation. They have also initiated some of the people that they claim to be famous Kappa Sigs like Jimmy Buffet.

SigEp42 02-20-2004 04:38 PM

Sigma Phi Epsilon has a kind of alumni Initiation. There are no set criteria that I know of usually you have to be a volunteer to a chapter or some how know them. We initiated a brother’s father last year. Other than that it’s usually done when a chapter is installed, or when someone has made a huge contribution to a chapter. It’s not as structured as NPC or NPHC.


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