So yeah I could just ask him
 

But what sort of fun would that be? Ok here's the situation...Bryan and I have been hooking up on and off for over a year now. Just about a year ago, I planned a very special evening. I'm trying to keep this pg, but suffice it so say that he was being taken care of very well. At one point when I was being particularly impressive, the song "Slow Ride" was on. After it ended (the song and the event in question) he was like, "Oh my god, I'm never going to be able to hear that song and not think of you and what you just did" (in a very complimentary way). So from then it was sort of a running joke between us, and whenever we would get together I would always play the Dazed and Confused soundtrack and we'd share a little look or laugh when Slowride came on. Soooo cut to a year from now, and I'm looking at this website we're both on, and I decide to read his profile. I noticed that it said it had been updated within the past 5 days (the last time I saw him was Tuesday I believe), and he had only changed the response to one question. The questions are all sort of fun, personal info kinda stuff...ie, what celebrity do you resemble most, what 5 things would we find in your bedroom, favorite on screen sex scene, etc. And the question he had changed his answer to was "Song or album that puts you in the mood". And what he said was..."There's only one answer. Slowride, by Foghat".

Ok so here's my question...do you think I can consider this a big ol compliment, or a big ol coincidence? You have to keep in mind that Bryan and I have a very non-commited thing, and there has never been any instance when he gave any solid indication that he thought of me outside of our time together. So really none of this is a big deal, but I will be SO SO flattered if it's in reference to me! I need to hear somebody else's opinion, whatcha think?

(Sorry if this makes no sense, am only a little bit inebriated)

I think you're stalking him.

-Rudey

nooo i don't think your stalking him! shame on you rudey lol- she's a girl- and i definately know what you are saying..... yes i would definately take it as a compliment- and hint around spending MORE time together- but be careful hun- take it slow- you guys are committed... uh sexually it seems and sometimes its harder to take it to the next level.... idk- i just got out of something similar and its been really hard- but i'd definately go for it- what do you ahve to lose?

I'm way too lazy to stalk someone

lol i knowwww what you mean

And if it is in reference to me, there's nothing I would actually do about it anyway. We aren't very compatable on the relationship level, and neither of us is interested in that from the other. Mostly I just want the personal bragging rights afforded with that...it would just tickle my fancy to know that I had made an impression on this hot as shit boy who is as extraordinary proficient himself. Kindof like a master painter telling you that your watercolor is beautiful. Not entirely sure where that metaphor came from but at the moment it makes perfect sense.