Pole ... To be big/fit, muscular, skinny
 

How important is it for a guy to be "big, in shaped, and muscular", or for a chick to be "thin, skinny, and not so big"?

I guess use the scale 1-10, with 1 being unimportant, and 10 being the most important thing in the world

I would rate it as 9, because our culture says so. First impression says everything, and I believe at the first sight, guys would spot skinny chicks, and chicks would spot in-shaped guys. Am I right?

Also at the job market, and interview purpose, how many of us would hire a 300 lbs chick, who couldn't even hike the entrance staircase to the office, or a guy, who seemed came straight from Somalia, since he was a sack of bones, and couldn't even lift a chair off floor?
Well, I put the extreme cases here, but you get the point.

--> hopefully this would be a good motivation for all of us to be in shape! Keep working out, all!

So what do you think? ;)

My post will be kind of useless, but due to the title I was really confused, picturing this like 10 dollar crap pole from K Mart that you lift or twirl or something to work out and exersize.

ROFL, yes that's what it sounded like.

In answer to the question, a 1. I personally don't like them all big and muscular..........

To give a genuine answer, I am attracted to healthy guys. You can tell if a person is supposed to be slender, or built like a teddy bear. Just like I'm not attracted to the morbidly obese, I think steroid faces are nasty. Veins and whatnot popping out all over the place- GHEY.

I'm with AXJules, a healthy physique is nice. I like muscular, no jowls or anything, but not the look that says you spend three hours/day in the gym (SCREAMS college kid or dimwit in most cases- not all).

TOO muscular ain't cute (plus trying to cuddle with someone who has no body fat AT ALL is really unpleasant).

I prefer a big teddy bear type. I want a soft chest to rest my head on.

Dee

I agree, I want a healthy physique... I like muscles on a guy but I don't like a guy being too muscular, he'll crush me, I'm petite! Muscles honestly don't factor in that, that much for me at least.