Re: Gay marriages
 

i do have a questions for greeks only, please....since we are talking about same sex unions.

scenario:

your soror or frat that is gay is getting married, you do in fact attend the weddings. would you participate in serenading them at their own weddings??? i don't want to put n e one on the spot, but i am curious to know the thoughts of my fellow greeks.

Re: Re: Gay marriages
 

GOOD QUESTION SOROR.
Honestly, I would. I cannot knock them for finding love how it came to them. I would want to make the SOROR BRIDE smile and know that she has sorors embracing her regardless of who she married.

Good Question. I never really thought about it before. I'd have to follow our organization's PROTOCOL first, then I 'd deal with the same-sex issue later. ;) :D

if I made the effort to be there and attend the wedding then I would make the effort to be apart of the serenade, especially if its one of my LS's

Yes & Yes, I would.:)

interesting indeed!!
yes I would support her!

I'd be down for my frat bruh and would maintain our friendship, but because I consider marriage a religious institution, I'd not attend "the ceremony" cause I'm not in agreement with it.

I would. How my soror gets off is not my business.

Would you sing the song?!!?!?

**le dammit** copyright Nikki1920

No.
I don't want to be a hypocrite about this. Even if I did attend (which would make me said hypocrite) I wouldn't sing the Alpha hymn, as is traditionally done for the brother and his new bride. I don't believe the majority of bruhs would either. Some might, but I really doubt it.

...some of these threads don't make for a lot of happy talk, do they? :( but intelligent discussion is good.

He wouldn't be there at all to sing. WOW, this is an interesting topic! I guess if I am close enough to her to receive an invite to the ceremony, I probably would. However, honestly, it would weird me out a little bit. Never had to deal with a situation like that before. But, I would keep my feelings to myself and support my girl. That's what friends/sorors do.

Intelligent discussion is very good. It proves the value of self-moderation.

I need some clarification on your comment.

What I mean is that most of us who frequent NPHC rooms on GC can disagree on issues, but I don't see many personal attacks. I'm only speaking for me.

On other boards I belong to, including a fashion/style board (yeah, I'm shallow), an innocent disagreement can blow up into a personal attack and a flame war.

Hope this clarifies.:cool:

Clarification understood, and I agree. I can be a lil slo sometimes. :cool: