What will you settle for in love?
 

My mommy (I need to grow up, huh) always stresses the importance of not settling for less than what I know I deserve when it comes to love. However, I think life is all about compromises. What three issues you guys willing to compromise on, and what three issues are you adamantly against?

Compromise-worthy issues:

1. Children: Since I don't have any, I would prefer that the men I date don't either. However, the reality is that many do. I can compromise on one child. But if the negro has all kinds of branches hanging off his section of the family tree, I'm OUT!

2. Finances: Although it would be nice to find a man with lots of money, I would be more than content to find an honest, hardworking man who loves my dirty draws'... Money situations are everchanging, but a true and enduring love is hard to come by.

3. Looks: Yes, Boris-esque qualities are always appreciated, and I would even venture to say preferred, but what's a girl to do? If I met a man who was not the most attractive, yet treated me like gold, I would be in heaven.

Compromise-my a$$ issues:

1. Children: Men who don't like/don't want children need not apply. *not liking pets is another strike

2. Lazy: If a brother doesn't like to work, I can't deal wit' em.. Sorry!

3. Respect: If he refers to women as b's and whores and the like, that's how he'll refer to you as soon as you piss him off enough...

Well I have a good man, but this is what i settled for

Body- yeah he could work out a little bit but I really could care less because he treats me like a princess

Money- he's young so it's acceptable that he doesnt have it yet. But he works really hard and he wants to be successful never lazy

Oral gratification- he hasnt gotten over that issue yet. Oh well he's still the bomb!

Would not settle for

Uneducated- guys who dont want to learn or grow mentally or who cant speak properly

Teeth- my mom's a dentist so i have a bad habit of being all up in your grill. So if your teeth are jacked up and terribly stained we cant work....sarry

BO- after the gym maybe but you need to keep yourself clean and want to be clean . I cant deal with a funky man, it's a turn off and embarrassing