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[This message has been edited by PinkCashmere (edited August 15, 2000).]

[This message has been edited by PinkCashmere (edited August 15, 2000).]

Soror,

Your Drama is not there because you two are adults. IF you can come in contact with your feelings then you can do right. Talk to the guy you are in the relationship with and let him know how you feel. It will be ackward in the beginning but stay faithful to your feelings and then it will be ok.

Your Truly
The Sphinxpoet
Jedi Master

Dating your ex-man's friend
 

Hi sorors,
This is my first time posting to the board. But I am doing so b/c I have an issue that is truly weighing on my heart and would really appreciate some good advice (or any frat that may read this as well).
Ok, here's the situation in a nutshell. Met this guy back in Aug'99. I had just moved into the building, and he lived upstairs. (Think "Living Single") Let's call him 'Kyle'. Well Kyle and I never really took enough time to get to know one another b/c I had just gotten out of a painful relationship w/ my first love, and he turned out to be the rebound guy (no problem for him). So I left for school two states away and dealt w/ him on my visits home for the entire year. The relationship eventually wound up not working, which is when things got strictly sexual (we're all adults here). Anyway, this went on for a year, up until this summer, which is when I felt that I just had enough b/c I deserved better than what he could give me. Well to make a long story short, me and his roomate had always been cool. We'll call him 'Overton'. Kyle and Overton had been roomates since college...they're now 27 and 25 respectively...but that's it. They're not like best friends or anything - just two people splitting bills. Well as you can probably already guess, Overton and I started catching serious feelings for one another but agreed to not take it to that level at this point due to the awkardness of the situation. However, as we spend more and more time together, we are both finding that we really do care for one another and have a lot in common. On the one hand, I don't want anyone's feelings to get hurt. But on the other hand, I honestly feel like this is something that I want to pursue. So far, we've only been to the movies, to eat, bowling, etc, etc...And there's been absolutely NO kissing or anything else for that matter. Sorors, I really need your help!!!!