I like a guy... he don't like me
 

Isn't there a statute of limitations on crushes lol?

I know girls that have had crushes for 4 and even 5 years... while sometimes I wonder about their sanity :) it does happen!!!

This is the current chapter in my life right now. I like this guy but he's such a player and community property (he's a ho). I don't know why I like him, but I just have a crush on him. He is definitely not the committment type right now. I have not been physical with him except for a kiss. I don't think he'll settle down until he's probably in his 30's or 40's. I will just keep my crush on him for now.

:( Annice

Well I olike a guy, and I have no idea how he feels about me. He's so confusing. One minutes he's the sweetest guy ever, and the next minute he's the biggest ass. He tells me how much he wants to see me and get together with me, but he stands me up. Then he apologizes for standing me up and makes plans to see me later and guess what he does...he stand me up again. When I confront him about he gives me a song and dance about how he has priorities, yeah and I don't because of course my entire life revolves around him:rolleyes: Then I won't here from him for days and then when I do he acts like nothing happened. And he's not hanging around because I'm putting out because he's not getting any, but he's always telling me how much he wants to see me. What is his problem? What does he want from me? And why am I still hanging on to this guy?

I think because I'm not putting out for him he'd rather get it from some of the easy girls that he picks up.

alright....girl chat time.........
 

ok....for the most part, guys suck. i'm sorry, but they do. there's a very small portion of them who just kick ass and are nice and funny and sweet and everything we want/need them to be. and don't get me wrong, i know chicks suck, too....but this is girl bitching time. :D

we've all liked our share of a-holes, we've all dated and been in loooove with our share of d*ck heads....but here's something i have learned the hard way: ultimately, it is up to you to determine how you are going to be treated.....lady pi phi, girl, you're letting him be an ass. save yourself and just let it go. i know easier said than done, but if you let him do it.....you can't really be mad at him. this is a harsh reality that i had to come to terms with...and it ain't easy b/c it is sooo much easier to blame the other person for being crappy...BUT they may not be that way if ppl didn't let them. does that make sense? so...drop him like the bad habit he is. doesn't seem like you're missing out on too much when he bails on dates.....

and PM_Mama00.....is there anything substantial to this italian stallion other than his looks? don't settle for a pretty boy when a big beautiful "average joe" may be your prince charming. :)

ok, the "dear diva" section is done for today.....hope you don't mind the advice intrusion, but it's just that i've been there crushin on a cutie when a much better guy was waiting on the sidelines--and i lost out. :( i have also dated several mean, hateful, but later kiss-ass guys who would make me mad and sad, etc....but at the end of the day, i had control of the situation. i could have gotten out, but i didn't. so who's more to blame for the girl's misery: the guy that is a dick, or the girl that has the power to stop it and doesn't? and even if there is no one right now....go out and have fun with your sisters!!!!!!!! "boys come and go, but...." ;)

-sigh- 361 reasons why kitso isn't one of those d*ckheads :cool:

AMEN sister! This is also the story of my life. For two years I have been dating this guy on and off. One minute he will bend over backwards for me and the next he's an ass. So me being the mature individual I am.... I wait a day or two to return his calls, and guess what he calls me more often, stops by my place. I think he in it for the thrill of the hunt, but why? The kicker to the whole thing is that last Friday he suggested that I move in with him! :eek: Really what kind of guy does this?

*end of rant* :)

one addicted to crack..................:p

I dont like you! Will you get over me?:confused:

Time wounds all heels or shit happens!

Get on with the life of living!!!;)

If you can live as Mature as I are, then that is an accoplishment!:D

Oh, maybe I misunderstood the post PM, Sooooory!:)

Not being sarcophigas. HEHE! Got to grt to bed soon>>>>>

TTFN!:)

I know I'm letting him treat me like this. And yeah, it is easier to blame him. It would be much easier to let him go if he were physically or verbally abusive towards me. I don't know why I am still hanging on. I've stopped calling him and I haven't heard from him in a few days, but if calls me again, I'm going to tell him. Because this is the last straw (well the last straw was a while ago but I'm a fool). I think I am hanging on to him because I don't think I'll find anyone else.

LOL Really he is a nice guy, I just get frustrated with him and his lack of time for me right now. I actually changed the subject when he said that, so I think he took as a very abrassive responce. I'm waiting till he's maybe a little less stressed (He's changing jobs right now) to talk to him about it. Like Lady Pi Phi he is never abusive in any manner. And I did let him go and he came back.


FYI He called as I was typing this, go figure!

Guys...I don't think we'll ever completely understand them :rolleyes:

Anyways, I think I have some stubborn issues...here's my situation:

I was friends with this guy for awhile, we dated, he treated me good (in a taking me out to the movies kind of way...not a getting me flowers and writing me poetry kind of way). Anyways, things with us just kind of stopped...I still liked him but I wasn't going to be the one to admit it to him when he seemed like he had a perfect life without me. So fast forward about a month...he gets back with his ex but is still super flirty with me...and had the audacity to call me this one night to try to get some booty...I was like "ok, listen you pathetic dirty little man whore...I am nobody's friend with benefits...and I am nobody's sloppy seconds...if you want to get back with your ex that is totally ok...just don't come knocking on my door because you lost any possible chance you had with me months ago"...and then I hung up the phone. Anyways, he was drunk the night he called me and thought he would get a piece, apologized, and we're still friends (but only because he apologized). Here's the thing...I still sort of like him and if he broke up with his ex and said some sweet things to me, I would probably get back with him....grrrrr I hate how I'm so stubborn on the outside but in reality, it would probably only take a hug and a few short sweet words for me to fall into his trap again :mad:


And there's another ex of mine who was sweet in the buying me flowers, writing me poems, playing with my hair 'til I fell asleep kind of way....and I miss him only because guys like him are hard to find and I felt like a total princess when I was with him. And the reason we broke up is beyond me...that makes it harder....and he also got back with his ex after me...:confused:
Maybe it's something I do....???

LadyPiPhi- I know exactly what you mean exept for me I am one of those insane girls that has hung on for about 4 1/2 years to this guy I have a crush on which does the exact things you described about making plans then standing me up then calling and acting like everything is okay. And the thing is he is a great friend I guess.. I mean he has always been there when I needed him I guess he just sucks at the being the guy I like.

For example he called me the other morning at 3am drunk and of course he comes over. Well to make a long story short I went to the bathroom and he just left. Didn't say bye or anything. What is wrong with him? Wait what is wrong with me to keep letting him do this to me....

I really need to get rid of this one!!