Need Support!!!
 

sisters far and wide......i need some big time support....i have a semi-BLIND DATE ON THURSDAY!!!! this is a guy i met in lexington over the weekend at a partay....we talked for a while (like, hi, 3 hrs) just chillin'....he is a COMPLETE HOTTIE, and being completely serious here......out of my league as far as looks go. not saying i'm busted.....but he is a PRETTY BOY. yikes....so, he asked me out for thursday (which, is an odd day, i thought, but oh well.....), and i was very hesitant b/c i don't know if the beer goggles were on with this one or not in thinking i am cuter than i am, so ya know. i'm not busted, i have cuteness......but you all know what i'm saying here. you know when someone is prettier than you, and he fills the bill on that one. we did get along really well and he said i was "cute" and "funny".....but can anyone else feel me on why i'm petrified that when he opens his door at 7pm EST (hint, hint....say a prayer and think of me at this time!!!) thursday he's gonna be like, "oops..."?!?!?!?!?! so, yeah.....i think i'll be fine regardless, b/c i can poor on the ol' monica charm.....but still. we've talked/chatted twice since then. sent pics, all that....he's soooooooooooooo hot. 23....graduates in may....he's a pike. he's a personal trainer for the love of all things holy!!!!!!!!!!!!! drives a mustang....sheesh. pretty boy....preeeeeeeeeetty boy. i don't do the pretty boy thing..........they make me nervous.

SOMEONE CALM ME DOWN AND GIVE ME WORDS OF WIIIISSSSDOOOOOM!!!!!!!!!

Just try not to be nervous and have fun! It sounds like he's interested, otherwise you wouldn't be talking and he wouldn't have asked you out! And if he doesn't figure out what a great girl you are, then he's not worth your time and you'll find someone so much better!! :D :cool:


(although I'm not sure if I'm the best on to be giving advice lately because the last five guys that have shown interest in me have either been married, had a girlfriend, or told me that they weren't ready for the relationship we had after we hung out for one night. I hadn't realized that hanging out once qualifies for a relationship!)

From an older, wiser sister, here are my words of wisdom


BANG THE EVER LIVING HELL OUT OF HIM!


:) ;)

oi
 

ok, so this is tomorrow.....and c'mon! bang the living hell out of him?!?!?!!? i'm trying to be GOOD here and not be out of control...we'll see, though...hahaha--i'll let you know!

ILMG....i'll email you his pic, so you can see and then know why i'm hesitant, k? (and at the same time be totally jealous! ;) )

tomorrow night, 7pm.......
m

thankfully
 

the boy has finals next week.....and he was talking about how much stuff he has to do this weekend...so i offered to re-schedule. he was hesitant about changing and all, but i insisted...being the cool one here. so we're going out next week...unless i chicken out again!

m

bang him
 

always listen to your elders. i think you should just do him too. it will relieve some of the nervousness. ;)

But remember to bring a raincoat, a rubber ducky, a french tickler, and a parachute.

Be like a good squirrel and be prepared. (That is one of the reasons the squirrel was chosen, because they think ahead!)
Good Luck and be safe!

ok....so...hadn't heard from ol' boy since i cancelled, so i thought i had severely damaged the ego, or he realized he was indeed NOT interested...however, LAST NIGHT he IMed me....asking me to COME OVER. it was after one, so ya know....i called him out on the booty call and he was like, "nonono.....you won't be disappointed....we'll hang out"...riiiight. yo' isht might hang out, but that's about it. :rolleyes: so, i was like, "maybe another night" b/c i'm kinda crushin on someone else, so ya know.....i ain't no skank......but he kept on and kept on....then he was like, "another night? how about saturday?" i was like, "uh....i have to see what's going on, but i'll get back to you on that"....he was obviously a lil tipsy so i am hoping he forgets we talked at all. he's supposed to call me tomorrow...thank heaven for caller ID.

my problem with this guy now goes beyond me thinking he's too pretty for me. it now stems from the fact that he knows some ppl from my high school....he was friends with the well-known players and the guys who were kinda known for being....i dunno....cocky and kinda jerk-esque. i don't really wanna deal with that....esp. if he does see me and realizes i'm not a size 2. remember, we met at a party.....he could've been sportin the beer goggles......not busted, not fat, but i do have some junk in the trunk...voluptuous is a good word i once heard ;), so. he may like that, he may not....he may be a nice guy, he may not. knowing the kind of company he keeps, and the fact he would straight up BOOTY CALL me (online, no less....not even on the phone like a NORMAL skank) after not talking to me for 3 wks, though, makes me question. plus the fact i already dig someone else....is there a point, anymore? did i answer my own question? hmmm....

and our drama never ends....


(btw, meeting new boy for a drink next weekend... hhhmmmmm)

ok, so talked to this boy AGAIN tonite.....i may go pay him a visit after bar hoppin tomorrow/tonite, but we shall see......he told me to call him and we'll figure something out b/c he "really wants" to see me and hang out.

i mean....bah. :p

AND MU: girl, take the bartender, not the miami boy...he's old! out with the old, in with the NEW!!! bwahaha!