Drunk Mail(cringe). . .voice mail is your enemy
 

we've all done it. at 3 am, pretty much exonerated beyond measure. . .when we pick up the phone to call someone who has pissed us off or made us think 'i'm sober enough to leave you an embarassing message that you will later
A- ask me what i was talking about
B- ignore me
C- snicker every time i walk in the room
D- all of the above


My Example:
i just realized how in control of my life my friend, 'creigh' is. we hooked up during his fraternity's the end of summer bash and have been fooling around ever since. the other night, i called hm to see if he wanted to hang out. . .and he said that he was busy and he'd call me back. then, i heard a girl's voice and lots of laughing. but i REALLY wanted to see him. so, i had my friend call his best friend(she's seeing him) to ask where they were and they said some party but they were going to swing by later. it was at that moment that i realized that while i was being faithful. . .he didn't give a f* just so long as i stayed at his beckoning call.

i looked at my friend with a 'what am i doing? did i actually think i was the only one that he was messing around with?'

needless to say, my friend and i left my house to drink at some of his brothers' house. we ended up pretty trashed.

and then, i began the phone process of leaving 'drunk mail' messages. yes, folks. . .not one but THREE really weird messages. the first message was 'hey, i'm mad at you. call me please.' my friend, who was equally wasted, decided that i didn't sound mad enough so she suggested i CALL BACK. and i left a longer one explaining IN DETAIL why i was mad and how much i couldn't stand him. then, i realized i left something out so i CALLED BACK. the contents of that message went something like 'i really like you. . .' i wouldn't have remembered it if his best friend hadn't called the next day and told my friend the entire messages in full.

she has suggested that i enter the witness protection program until this blows over.

Sorry to hear about your situation. I have to say though that I had to smile a little b/c I am usually the "friend" urging the other drunk friend to call back again :p

aww, you're SUCH a nice friend
my friend has repeatedly apologized for letting me admit that i like him
because now he's got ammunition:(

You know, one of my friends and I have an agreement not to let the other one drunk dial certain people.
We break it every weekend and swear we never will again.

I have to stop drunk dialing- however it did me good last week :)

good news is he called me today
he's been laughing on the phone ever since
i kept saying 'i was drunk'
and he was like, 'so you don't like me?'
and i was silent and changed the subject

argggh, darn SAEs. . .

white_chocolate-preach it sister about those damn SAE's!! I have the same problem with my former who is.. an sae! Hope your's isn't a wku one!

no, he's not one but he's at u of l
he was all over some girls at their paddy o'murphy party
i almost died from jealousy
he didn't even speak to me


but dont' worry
he got drunk mail for that one too

WhiteChocolate...I didn't mean that I urged them to drunk dial when I was sober. It's not a malicious thing and I'm sorry if I came off that way....it sounds much like ilovemyglo and her friends...they make a pact and swear not to do it...and then break it once actually in the situation.

White_Chocolate Maybe this is a good thing. It might turn out that Mr. SAE likes you right back. Maybe he needed to know that you like him before he could make a move. It could be the start of something very special. :D Good luck!

I totally have done the drunk dial thing. Just one really extreme case where I got mad and kept working myself into a frenzy all night and calling and leaving meaner messages, but a few small slip ups too.

there were times in my life (now, thankfully in the past) where my friends SWORE i should have a breathalizer on my phone to keep me from dialing when drunk.

I definately left one really bad drunk message one night, that my roomates went into my room and hid my phone every night that I went out that year!

T, I know that feeling?????? I just tell them that I cannot remember everything and delete it unless all important! My brain is like a Computer, but hell needs to be in the shop alot!

Did You Move?

don't worry....i once left a note on a guy's door telling him that we needed to talk. too bad i couldn't remember what we needed to talk about the next day when he called me. i'm also famous among my friends for drunk dialing.

Drunk + dialing = Do not mix

Then again maybe he likes you, too! :D