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Ever suspected or actually caught your man/woman in bed with someone else? How did you react? How would you react? Would marriage make a difference?

I'm not quite sure what I would do. Sometimes I think that I'd be very mature and calm. I'd simply show him and his lady friend to the door(no excuses/explanations necessary). For the ladies who watch Soul Food they know the Terry-style manner that I'm referring to. Other times I think I'd be dragging the b**** out by her hair and later torching or scratching up his car. Mmmmmm, guess I'll have to wait and see.
Marie

[This message has been edited by Marie (edited July 31, 2001).]

[This message has been edited by Marie (edited July 31, 2001).]

This happened to me while in college, while I was pledging, no less!

I calmly returned to my room (our dorms were across the street from each other) and dumped his belongings on the curb. I burned the pictures of us together and walked back to his room and handed the envelope to him. Good riddance to bad rubbish!

BTW, he is STILL married to her so I guess it was for the best.

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MCCOYRED
Mu Psi '86
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Dynamic...Salient...Temperate...Since 1913

I DID! I kicked the n----'s ass then watched as booth of them left (or since my sister was there) dragged out of my bedroom.

They aren't together, we aren't together and since I didn't go to jail, I think I handled it pretty well.

112

Nope.

I would leave.

To me; a relationship is a relationship. The only difference between romantic relationships is the legal involvement. If you love and respect that person, that kinda shyt would neva happen.

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[This message has been edited by The Original Ape (edited August 01, 2001).]

Ditto OA! Even if I was crazy enough to go back, the relationship would never be the same.

Dayum 112, who's your sister? LOL
"(Or since my sister was there) dragged out my bedroom" http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif

Okay, the wildest story yet: a cat I knew went to Central State some years back told me about how one of his friends got back at his girl after he caught her in the act. He invited her to his 4th floor dorm room to get it on, and then threw her clothes out his window and locked her out in the hallway...NAKED! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif

Not only did the chick have to run down 4 stories and outside to get her stuff, her business was obviously the absolute talk of the yard for the rest of the year, and she later transferred! Folks feelings ain't nothin to play wit!!

OH SNAP, DIRTYMIKE! WHAT YEAR DID THIS HAPPEN?!

I attended Central State in 1994 and I lived on the 4th floor of a dorm (Rm. 424)

Rainman:

The incident was prior to '94, yet scandalous for any era. Was CSU that off da hook, or should I excuse this as random?

Who knew Xenia could be host to such drama??!!!! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif

That yea was a good one, Dirty, remember? We broke off alot of azz back den!!! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif

ah damn, I should have thought of that... since I was living on the second floor and all. then the whole neighborhood could have jumped in... lol :0... wait, I'm not that mean.

112

You ain't never lied OA!!!! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif

i hope that i would simply leave. that would be just too much drama. on the other hand, if it is on a bad day, things could get a little messy. let's hope he has a dead bolt lock.