Pledging has failed us
 

First let me give warm greetings to the Phirst Phamily. I was recently at the greek in Philly and I saw Alphas, Kappas Ques, Sigmas etc. who should have never made it through the process. I mean the process was put in place to weed out many of the people we are bringing in. Anybody who can wild like I saw some people in philly have no respect for there organizations. I know we can not help some bad people getting in but they have become the majority. As bloody as the process has become it has not improved the character or quality of the membership.

Preacher,

I'm sure you observed what some of us here have seen too; and that is, the bad ones you referred to probably DIDN'T pledge. It's this new process that allows non-serious people to get in. If there's no test, ANYBODY can get in. If it's easy to get, it wont be valued.

I agree then I don't there is a lot of catz who got beat up for 5 weeks and feel they have the right to do whatever in the name of there Frat. I pledged at a single letter chapter (Bloody Nu) And we pre pledged for almost 5 weeks. So A lot of this rif raf did quote unquote pledge its just the process was filled with brutality and not brotherhood. I mean I believe a lot of what I have been through is bull shit and if it is done right 5 weeks is long enough to pledge. Bottom line frat this process just brings in more followers when we really need more leaders. Alpha Phi Alpha is the light of the world forever shall I hold it up high

Check your e-mail.

proof positive that it is the development of mental...not physical prowess/stamina that assists the development of a viable member...

Preacher06, I was at Philly as well. I definitely think there are questionable members in many organizations. The major problem that I have is seeing fraternity "clones". Why is it that an individual feels that he has to comprimise his individuality to fit into the stereotype of an organization, rather than maintain his individuality and bring that to the organization?

Philosopher1963

Hmmmm ... that reads like something an Iota Man might write! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif

Seriously, tho - Greetings (and much respect) to the men of Alpha Phi Alpha!

I don't think the issue here is pledging. It speaks to how wrongly people approached the pledging process in the first place.

Whatever process you undergo to join an organization, it is NOT the methodology for screening out "bad apples." The screening should take place BEFORE a candidate is accepted. The process is merely about setting people on the correct road to Brotherhood.

Somebody told me once, "The best indicator of what someone will do is what they've already done." If that's true, then we need to be taking a closer look at the backgrounds of the people we select as candidates. Poor aspirants will make poor Brothers ... they will only bring bad attitudes, poor work ethics, and trouble into the fold.

Somebody else once told me, "You don't need a weeding-out process ... just pick FLOWERS!

Food for thought, yes?

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IotaNet
Iota Phi Theta Fraternity, Inc.
Alpha Eta Chapter, Spring, 1980

Kappa Kappa Psi Honorary Band Fraternity
Zeta Nu Chapter, Spring, 1979

[This message has been edited by IotaNet (edited July 23, 2001).]