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WHY DO......?(The Original Ape series)
WHY DO.....?
Why do many women, regardless of how mature or secure they are in themselves, still prematurely convict a brutha if they hear someone has seen their man out with anotha woman? Yeah, I know it's not Greek-related; but we ALL have to deal with this situation at some point in our lives. |
much respect...
good question. but i have a question first...would you rather her ask you if this "rumor" is the truth or just blow it off and not say anything? peace, lastpoet |
I dunno. It just happens like that. No explanation for it at all.
Question: Has she "found you" in a situation where you had not been honest b4 and you were "with" another woman? |
Well, it could be for a variety of reasons.
1) Most women like to think they know their men inside and out. So to hear that he was out with a woman somewhere, you're like, who was she?? Especially if you know that your man usually doesn't spend time with other females. 2) If he has been untrustworthy in the past, of course it would raise eyebrows. 3) Many women are bitter, and you know misery loves company, so they pump up their girl to get hyped over something that could very well be nothing. Women need to stay away from these type of "friends." Not everyone has our best interest at heart. 4) Between the time that you hear the rumor and the time you talk to your man, your mind has begin to run away with itself, to the point where you have convinced yourself that you no longer really know what's going on. And lastly . . . 5) Some women can't survive without drama. |
First ladies, please don't assume it's me. I have no problem identifying myself in a problem, or as the problem. Secondly, assume that this man has'never been caught' in this position before.
Lastpoetnsite: Yes. I would rather she ask first, then... Ideal08: #5 is the shyt!!! That is sooo true! |
Would you ladies agree that men would react the same way?
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....Also, Brothers don't you get tired of women making comments like "Jill told me she saw you at the club talking to some girl." Who gives a $%*t! If you want to know if I was out flirting just ask and don't come to me with mind games. You know how they do - - they don't talk to you for a few days because they are mad but you don't know why they are upset in the first place until you drag it out of them. Damn - - - it didn't mean to get so wrapped up in this.
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VictoriaSecret: You're right-for alot brothas. [This message has been edited by The Original Ape (edited May 11, 2001).] |
much respect...
Original Ape...another question...so she asks if it is true...how should she ask? should she just say: "my friend said that she saw you with (insert name here) is that true" should she say: "i have heard something that i just don't want to believe so i'm bringing it to you before we have any drama...i heard that you were with (insert name here)...so whassup?" or how would you like this to be asked? cause believe me it can get sticky any way you frame it...ya know? peace |
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It's nice to know a lady that handles the truth well, be it good or bad; but YOUR THE EXCEPTION TO THE RULE. Most people(women AND men) that SAY they can handle that kind of truth actually can't; and then the problem becomes bigger. |
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"I can't expect the truth from those who continue to lie to themselves" [This message has been edited by Inquisitive (edited May 18, 2001).] |
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