Question for the ladies
 

Ladies,

Answer me this, why is it when a girl asks a guy how many chicks he has slept with and the guy gives some bull$hit answer like 8 (knowing full well it's more like 3 times that amount) and the girl comes back with " Your lying your a$$ off" and then when she is asked she says around the same number ( Usally the girls say 3-5) and then gets pissed when the guy tells her he doesn't believe her?

It pisses me off when a girl thinks your lying just because you are a smooth talker and your cute, whether or not you are lying is irrelevent. I mean seriously, do women actually think that guys believe everything they say? I've come to find out that they expect us to believe them but yet they themselves say " guys lie all the time".

One thing I learned early on in college is this: Women are just as bad as guys are when it comes to hooking up/sex. They are just somewhat sneakier and more closed about it than guys. For example, If a girl has sex with a guy and this starts to become one of those situations where its a different guy every two weeks, she is reluctant to tell her friends. As for a guy, everyone just thinks you have mad game and are a stud. The girl doesn't tell her frineds because she doesn't want it to get out in the open and be called a slut, yet those very same girls are the ones that bring up "that" question right as your about to have sex with her, ( Just how many girls HAVE you had sex with?) What do you women expect a guy to say????? ( Uhhhhh---I've banged so many I quit counting 3 years ago)....let me see here......1. i could be honest and not get any from her or 2. I could make up a number that sounds like it could be good or just alittle bad and still get laid......I find it funny because the women are normally lying just as well, maybe not for the same reasons but they have theirs.

I understand women have it kinda bad being called a slut for nailing 4 or 5 different guys a month but if you don't want the guy to lie, don't lie yourself.

As guys we have it kinda easy......either we are called a stud and congragulated or else it is written off as " I was drunk and nailed a dirty" *NOTE* (When i say she was dirty this dosen't mean she was trashy, it simply means she is one of those that you would let your dog chew on as a toy, another words---she wasn't the best looking chick)....When guys are ragged by their friends for nailed a dirty, it's not all that bad because, as guys, we understand that each of us has had a dirty a few times in our lives. It's just those that have a tendancy to constantly hook up with the fattest girl in the club are generally ragged more than others. Girls on the other hand are forever labled as a skank by their peers.....


I know most women think that men lie alot. Well, your right, we do. I'm just curious as to why women come down on men for it but then expect us to believe everything they say and then get pissed when we don't.

P.S.---This has nothing to do with me and my lady......it's just something that I was talking about with a few friends this past weekend when some girl asked one of them and he told her the magic number we all use----6.

Hmmmm....well, I never lie about my maic number. It is always 3!

The greek god of orgies has never went there. ;)

LOL....you don't have to, your just a feen.

Feen? I'm a dope feen? lol.

:rolleyes:

You shall have to explain this one my friend, lol.

Anyhoo, let me get this straight.

UF you are saying: Yeah guys lie all the time, BUT why do girls ask guys if they're lying all the time?

I think you are alleging that the asking makes you lie? I am trying to get this straight.

And really, I think that on this topic EVERYBODY lies. Men, women, everybody. If someone is nosy enough to ask, then they deserve whatever answer they get. Youa re asking for that person to tell you what you want to hear in essence.

Some questions like "have you been tested for an STD" or "will you put on the condom" are a given, and not intrusive if you are having sex, but others... you're just kinda asking for the lie.

In this day and age I think it's important to be honest about how many sexual partners you have had. I never lie and wouldn't want to be lied to either. I don't want to find out that 3 was actually 18...cuz if I knew that I may have thought twice about the relations because of disease chances. Likewise however, you can sleep with one person only and still get something.
All in all, I thin mature adults should be honest about the number. If a person has a problem with that number then you probably shouldn't be sleeping with them anyways. And like I said, you can never be too careful. People go around sleeping with others like it's newest rage....I hope they know the consequences.

Hootie

Well, 3 is fairly accurate! lol :D

I think that if the relationship becomes very serious, you know to the point where you tell each other everything, then this question is appropriate. But when you are sleeping with someone in a relationship for the first time, don't mess up the vibe. Casual sex doesn't count...grew out of that.

Plus, I find it hard to believe that most guys OVERestimate. LOL. I am sure there are those studly, superfine men who just HAVE to lower the number so the girl won't walk out. But most men's egos just will not allow such a travesty as to have someone think they have slept with fewer girls than they actually have.

Libra, honey, the check is not in the mail, I never lie!:D

I have kissed hundreds of the sweetest ladies in the world! It was also my pleasure to do it too!

Now If I could get that rib back the world would be right!:cool:


Damn speaking of ribs, boy would some Ollie Gates sound good for tonight!:cool: