What makes a real good man?
 

Hey Ladies, I saw a similar post in the Alpha's forum, and decided to bring it here...

what makes a real good man..............

here go my responses...

1) religious
2) ambition
3) intelligence
4) communication skills
5) physical attraction...

OK what are your qualites.. (note) I would list more but want to give others a chance to respond... ;)

If I can't stress it enough....

communication skills

I've gotten me one
 

Well a few characteristics of my baby are:

He's extremely sexy and romantic.
He does the little things.
He knows what it means to be equal in sharing duties
He knows how to talk openly with me and be straight up, upfront.
He isn't cheap, but knows what it means to budget and set limits.
He is full of potential and working to the fullest of his.
He pushes you to succeed at your dreams
He lets you live your life for who you are and accepts the fact that he can't change who you are only guide you
He looks great and grooms extremely well
Well that's enough for now.

Let me go call my baby, you know he's serving our country well. (SMILE)

Well said sisterfriend. Communication and listening skills are key factors in any relationship.

Okay yall here goes my list....tell me is this why i cant find a man

1) spiritual- must thirst after God ( in a wierd way that is a turn on for me)

2) must have a vision- the Word says where there is a lack of vision the people parish

3) of course, let me say physical attraction: it is what catches your attention at first but there have been cute guys who have opened there mouths and all that attractiveness changed and vice-versa

4) he needs to be able to make me feel like i am the most important woman in the world

* that probably asking for too much but i need to feel valued*

Thats all.....now is that so hard!!! It must be cause I haven't found it yet!!!!

LOL......Holyghost 7
 

you are not the only one..but dont worry...be happy!! :p

Yes, Soror - communication skills, a sense of humor, romance and most of all back-bone! You have to be a real man to stand up to me.

I haven't forgotten about you. Call me if you can, girl.

:) that made my day. Trying to send you a PM:p

I think a man who has a strong back bone and can stand up for himself and his lady,strong family ties not afraid to say he's sorry and a man who knows where he is going in life.....sexy good looks don't hurt either...lol

Sorhors and Sisterfriends,

I believe that what makes a real good man are the following:

He has a backbone
He believes in God
He is willing to take a stand
He is witty, charming, respectful, and helpful
He is not afraid to say I love you first (smile)
He is hard working
He is willing to see it from another person's perspective
He is open to change.

That's why I guess I've been with my man for going on 8 years.

Serioussigma22:cool:

Someone who is into you is crucial. Has anyone else read the book "He's just not that into you"?????


This book is my new dating bible.

;)

i got the book yesterday and read some of it at work. all i can say is WOW. i agree.... this is a must have. great to have a man's perspective to dating and what men really think.

His Momma is his first love. If he does not love and respect his mother he will never love and respect you.

Just as long as he isn't too attached to his mama...That can cause problems.

Otherwise I think a good man takes care of his responsibilities.

Had to revive this. Hmmmmmmmmm let's see.

1. He has a strong relationship with God
2. He is a good communicator
3. He is a good listener
4. He has a great work ethic
5. Family is the second most important thing to him, God being first
6. He is respectful
7. He is faithful
8. He is considerate of others
9. He is neat (can't stand no sloppy man)
10. He always seek to be a blessing