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PrettyKitty 03-16-2002 04:21 PM

Do you ALWAYS seem to attract a certain kind of man/woman?
 
Do you always seem to attract a certain kind of man or woman? What kind is that and why do you think that is?

Special1920 03-16-2002 09:39 PM

YES!
 
A great question soror! Yes it appears my long-term relationships have been with men who are much alike. First love 4 years, First husband 10 years, second husband 6 years(present).
All 3 were/are very passive, very non-confrontational, in other words they let me have my way no question. But as I've gotten older I have learned to let my current husband run the show(or at least let him think he is).

DOVE1920 03-17-2002 12:51 AM

YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!

Sigmas. LOL!!!! Why? I haven't the slightest!

Her Dopenezzz 03-17-2002 02:34 AM

I have noticed a pattern:
They're quiet, ambitious men who are usually in bglo's and trained in the martial arts ( :confused: don't know why).

But, I still reserve the right to chooZe & refuZe. :D

Blue_Passion_01 03-18-2002 12:29 PM

I tend to attract them all. Tall, Short, Broke, Rich, Alpha, Sigma, Que, or Iota. What it all boils down to is who is going to treat me the best......:D

lovelyivy84 03-18-2002 12:46 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Blue_Passion_01
I tend to attract them all. Tall, Short, Broke, Rich, Alpha, Sigma, Que, or Iota. What it all boils down to is who is going to treat me the best......:D
ditto!

ANd that works for me!:D

Variety is the spice of life y'all.

Shelacious 03-18-2002 01:44 PM

I attract them ALL across the board too...short, tall, Greek or no, slender, heavies, dreds, baldies, light, dark, ghetto or not...

But in terms of the ones I have dated seriously in the past 5 years:

-All college educated--a few with advanced degrees
-Non-greek
-All very intelligent
-Relatively arrogant
-Relatively ambitious
-Handsome :)
-Crazy :D

Zetaphied 03-23-2002 05:29 PM

Yes,

Sorors I kid you not, I am a freaking LOSER magnet! LOL. I always seem to attract men who have no idea how to interact and function in a relationship. They are either selfish, cheap, or insensitive. I don't know maybe subconsciencely i have thing for men need to be mothered. And I am talking way deep down in my psyche cause I sure hate men who are like that. LOL

Imperial11 03-23-2002 08:59 PM

Yes, I do and it's getting a little DEPRESSING!!!!
 
Yes, I always attract arrogant, inconsiderate JERKS! I don't know why, but I'm getting a little tired of it. Coincidentally, they always "just so happen" to be Omegas. I haven't given up on them (other Omegas) yet though. ;)

The depressing part is that my friends say that I attract this type of guy, because I am the same way. I beg to DIFFER!!!

strobelitehoney 03-26-2002 09:59 AM

Re: Do you ALWAYS seem to attract a certain kind of man/woman?
 
Quote:

Originally posted by PrettyKitty
Do you always seem to attract a certain kind of man or woman? What kind is that and why do you think that is?
For some reason I seem to attract, married men, INSECURE men, Men with problems, Baby daddies,just plain ol Drama having men. :mad:
(I WANT A MAN WITH DRAMA MUST BE STAMPED ON MY FOREHEAD OR SOMETHING LMAO!!!!!)

OOOOOOOOR, men who are educated, but scared of commitment, are players, arrogant,and think they are the CREAM OF THE CROP BECAUSE THEY ARE LIVING IT UP, BUT ARE REALLY IN DEBT.
Men who i find Unattractive but have it going on.

Men from another country looking for a wife, so they can get their green card.:mad:

BROKE MEN,

I think that sums it up

BLUTANG 03-26-2002 05:12 PM

OMG! this is SO timely! i seem to always attract men who are:

medium height
light skinned (you know they like their dark-skinned women)
medium to athletic build
artistic (music, writing, painting)
either the only child or the only male
and SPOILED!

there was even a point when three consecutive boyfriends shared the same birthday, just different years... scary! :confused:


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