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Lost, why this one Fraternity (not frat) ?
While all Internationals are Great, the individual Chapters may not be to your liking! I can see why according to what you wrote! LOOK at to other Fraternitys! Our # 54 had his son join PSE because he did not want to be known as RAMBOS BOY! I think he wishes he had joined us but he is making changes in his Chapter! There are GOOD people in many other Fraternitys. I do not beleive in Hazing and if I tried to join one and found that they did I would Damn Skippy not be a member of that Org! Best of luck in your endevors!:) |
your options
lostone-
I am going to assume from some of the things you said that you are trying to pledge an NPHC member fraternity. ("underground", started at the beginning of the semester (which is a long ways back), you've wanted to join this particulary org. your whole life...) To the best of my knowledge, all NPHC groups oppose hazing, and have MIP (<-- is it still called that?) in its place. And also, many, not all, chapters won't give you respect if you don't go 'underground'. I see 4 immediate options for you:
Whatever your decision, make sure it is right for you, and that you can deal with the consequences, whatever they are. It's unfortunate that chapters have this mentality today. There are some great pledging programs out there that leave no room for hazing, but still succeed in training men/women to grow and develop as individuals and as members of their chosen organization. |
This chapter is trouble. You will be happier (and safer) somewhere else.
Forget this crap about skating and maintain your self respect. |
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