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AlphaO 03-01-2002 02:23 PM

Spring Break and the ex! what to do?!
 
Hey everyone... I just found out today that my ex boyfriend of almost 4 years is going to the same spring break destination that I am!!! It will be so much drama, we are going to rosarito, which isn't that large, and we are going through the same company, so we are staying at the same hotel!!! before we broke up I suggested that him and I go to Rosarito together and he said NO! whats up with that?! anyways, heres my question....... SHould i back out of my trip? I have already paid and it is non-refundable, so I would have to find someone to fill my spot, and he has yet to pay....HELP! :)

lovelyivy84 03-01-2002 02:43 PM

Cancel YOUR hard earned vacation???

Heck no!

If you think it will be awkward you MIGHT wat to talk to him about it beforehand (if the two of you can even bear conversation at this point). If things have degenerated to the point where you can't, then just do as much as you can to stay away from him while you're there. There are plenty of other Spring Breakers and I'm sure finding activities that he will not be a part of won't be that tough.

Good luck!

maggieaxid 03-01-2002 04:22 PM

ok, i did this...it had its advantages and MAJOR disadvantages.

PM if you want the total scoop on this. i don't feel like airing my dirty laundry on this forum. but, my advice is be fun, be classy and be nice, and stay the heck away from each other.

AlphaGamDiva 03-01-2002 05:10 PM

girl, do NOT cancel your plans! go out, have fun, and if nothing else, just enjoy the fact you can rub his nose in the fact that you'll be having your good time with the local boys! my ex b/f is miles away and i would love for him to have a glance now at how much happier i am without him. consider yourself lucky! ;)

monica

h2oot 03-01-2002 06:51 PM

Go...hold your head high...and have a blast!!! If ya still have a lot of relationship baggage then avoid him as best you can...and don't let yourself get sucked in any of his games.

SAEalumnus 03-01-2002 07:56 PM

Go anyway and make sure he sees you having fun without him.

GreekLetterGirl 03-01-2002 08:38 PM

i totally agree with what everyone said, go have a ball and forget about him, there are going to be tons of other Spring Breaking Boys out there so go have fun....


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