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What has happened to us as fraters and sorors? I have seen and heard a lot of things occuring amomg us that shouldn't be allowed. The Number one phrase i hear is "oh well He/She is not from my chapter." Someone enlightened an old head!

all I can say is that some people don't know how to properly embrace 'sisterhood' and 'brotherhood'. Maybe that is a problem starting at whomever you talk to's DEAN or something.

Ideally, bottom line should be 'That's my Soror' or "That's my Frat".. wherever they are from... you might not every have as tight a relationship with them but they are Family nonetheless.

You also have to realize you are dealing with a lot of people who are YOUNG and still learning things about the world and themselves. Look at things in perspective Frat. :)

I think alot of this goes back to one of the reasons pledging was made illegal. There are some alumni who don't come back to be involved with the undergrads. This leads to ignorance in processes as well as customs. Our organizations as well as all black greeks need to think about this.