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guys...how long would you wait?
I had the most interesting conversation with the guys at work yesterday about relationships and sex. I just wanted to see if the guys on GC felt the same way.
If your girlfriend was all about taking things slow, how long would you wait until she was ready to do the deed? |
If I were serious about her then I would wait as long as it takes.
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Good answer, Kelvar.
Nothing would turn me off more than a guy who gives an "ultimatum" or tries to make you feel guilty, etc. If a guy/girl doesn't care enough to go at whatever pace is comfortable for BOTH of them, then bye-bye dude. |
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Well in fairness, its not always a matter of whether you are just serious or not. A lot of the emotional bond happens from unconscious reactions to things in the relationship.
So yes I think a lot of guys would stay, without sex, if they were really into the girl. The question is how much it might start bothering them over time and how that would effect the way they feel. Sexual frustration is pretty powerful. Other things that might effect the relationship are whether she is a virgin or not? It would be easier to handle waiting a while for a virgin vs. non-virgin. How much sexual contact is there? If there is heavy petting but never any release . . . You could date a "technical virgin" for almost forever without much grief. As far as how long I would wait, I would wait up until the point that I woke up and realized I didn't like her that much anymore. |
I would wait. If you love her there should be no problem.
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i have a problem with waiting - i guess i am just brimming with lust lol ;)
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I dont really have a set time limit.
Q for the women??? How long do you think we should wait? |
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I'm kidding (kind of) but I've never seen the point of waiting. Waiting for what? |
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I would also say that the relationship really doesn't start until you start having sexual intercourse.
Before that a lot f the relationship is shaped because you arent having sex. After that point people seem to let their hair down a bit. Especially guys. We become different . . . evil . . . cold . . . sinister . . lol j/k. |
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It would depend on the reason . . . if it's something that I feel to be bullshit, then the relationship's probably not going to go anywhere anyway - if it's something personally "valid" for the girl, well then I'd go with it as long as I felt it was still beneficial to me and to her to be in the relationship, aka until I felt like it wasn't working out. That could be a week, could be forever . . .
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