Hon, I think the only thing for you to do is go to whatever parties you want with whomever you want, and forget that this guy's nutty azz even exists. He has spies watching you?! You SO don't need that; I wouldn't even bother with him at all -- maybe a polite "Hi" and that's it. Don't ask him about his girl situation, and don't watch him out of the corner of your eye to see what he's doing. Just go, have fun, and don't worry about it or him. You don't need the drama.

Good luck, and let us know how it goes! :)

I think you should just go and enjoy yourself at the party...dont worry about him..dont completly ignore him be nice and say hey maybe a friendly conversation but dont let him ruin your good time..good luck and have fun at the party! :)

Nichole

Blame it on women's intuition but I am seeing a hook up tonight between you two. Sorry... i'm just getting that vibe. He is missing you ("I'm not dating anyone here" - "I have people watching you") and your nervous so that means you are kinda anxious to see him.....

People- am I wrong? I'll put $5.00 bucks on it!

ok would anyone else be freaked out if a guy told her he had spies watching what she was doing - or is it just me?

First: I wouldn't go against the $5.00 bet. I see that two.

Second: Yeah, I'd be a little weirded out if he told me he had spies watching me.

spies
 

Okay, let's look at this calmly. I doubt this guy has actual "spies," but if his friends see you doing something that may be of interest to him, they tell him. We all do it. If I see a friend's ex with another girl, I usually report back along with a note of how ugly/fat/stupid the new girl is.

Just go party and have fun, dont worry about the dumb boy, there are other guys who are better for you!