Girlfriends
 

I watched the show last night with Constance. Did you see it? I was pissed. Why do women feel the need to run to another man when she is having some hard times. And why do women tell personal business - I hate that type of skskskkskst!!!! Seemingly, everyone knows what going on the girls house. Do wowmen really hang out and discuss all the problems of the relationship - if so, I know Constance is one happy lady cause I satisfy all and I do mean all her needs:p

Re: Girlfriends
 

I saw it. It was a rerun. Now I agree about your point about women running to other men and about women telling personal business. However, men run to other women if their physical needs are not being met by their wives/girlfriends as often or in the manner they would like. Or men just run to another woman for physical reasons just because she's there or showing interest. Both men and women are wrong for that. Just gotta be strong and try to work out all the issues with one another.

my sister and i were talking about that and me and my girlfriends sat around tonight talking about that episode. what is so distinctive is that she is having an emotional affair rather than a physical affair with this man. he listens to her and gives her the non-physical attention that women crave. what's worse? physical or emotional? i say emotional--that's the type of thing a woman will leave her man/family for.

Physical or emotional---it's ALL CHEATING!!!! I also saw the show (for the 2nd time) and, to be honest,... it's really getting GOOD!! It's one thing to be attracted to someone. We, married or not, would not be human if we did not have natural attractions to others. However, REACTING to those attractions is another thing. Mya is basically CHEATING on her husband. She's lusting (in her heart) for attention from a man who is not her husband. And on top of that, she's ACTING guilty (lying to him, sneaking out to lunches, taking gifts--all of which are things which take a extra marital relationship from one level to another). With many women, usually if there is an emotional attachment, there's soon to be a physical one. But the scary part is that scenarios like this happen all of the time. I can't wait to see how the show's producer, Kelsey Grammer, is going to play this one out. It's a big dose of reality.