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Recruitment with drug arrest
So I am about to end my first semester as a freshman at my university, where freshmen are not allowed to join fraternities until second semester. During this semester I was arrested in my dorm for possession of marijuana and drug paraphernalia (personal use, no distribution or any others involved), I was not kicked out of my residence hall or suspended but I was put on both disciplinary and housing probation for a full calender year.
I want to rush a fraternity next semester, but I am worried that my record and the fact that I will be on probation might hurt my chances of getting a bid. During recruitment do fraternities check up on this kind of stuff? And if they do would they care about this? Any information would be helpful. I understand that all schools and fraternities are different, personal experiences and general information is really what I am looking for. I will find out in the spring either way. Thanks for your input. |
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I doubt they'll check up on that stuff and I would think your school discipline report would probably fall under FERPA (a federal law which makes education records of students confidential). You should be fine. That said, if you join a house, please either discontinue your drug use altogether or at least do not do it with other people in the Greek system. It's extremely trashy and will reflect upon you and all of your brothers negatively. No one wants to be part of the stoner house.
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I would recommend taking Kevin's advice about discontinuing drug use! |
I'd ensure your aren't on social probation. At my university, if you were busted for drugs or booze, you automatically went on social probation, which meant you couldn't rush a fraternity.
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Well that's not true. Some people want to be part of the stoner house. But keep in mind that breaking laws (and regardless of opinion, it IS illegal where you are) as a member of a fraternity will impact its reputation AND can get the chapter kicked off campus AND can cost the fraternity a literal fortune in lawsuit costs if anything happens as a result of you simply having a good time. Fraternity members DO get held to a higher standard both socially and legally. Keep it off campus and way on the down low. And for dog's sake don't buy, sell or use in or near the house. EVER. Even if the other guys do.
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Stand up if YOU are clean and let them know. I am sure some of them have also been casual users, but as was said, GLOs try to hold themselves to a higher standerd whether they do or not. Tell one lie andc they grow bigger and harder to cover up. Would you want to join a group and then the be closed because of YOU? |
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