socalmarci |
03-19-2013 01:09 AM |
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Originally Posted by MysticCat
(Post 2208545)
App State? Arizona State? Arkansas State? . . .
Regardless, bear in mind the advice not to put all of your eggs in one basket. What makes you "pretty sure" which fraternity you want to be in? Do you actually know guys in the chapter (or in other chapters for comparison), or are you going off reputation? Consider the possibility that you might get there and find you don't like the chapter as much as you thought you would. And consider the possibility that even if you do like them, they may not see you fitting in and may not offer you a bid.
You owe it to yourself to at least check out other chapters and give them a chance to get to know you.
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Arizona State.
I started researching the different fraternities and their histories and stuff; this particular fraternity had a story that I really dig and seems like would be a good fit for me. The reputation is actually the draw-back, it looks like they have a pretty shitty rep at ASU; they don't really seem to be top house anywhere actually, at least not at the few schools that are at all a consideration for me. I'm not a super judgmental dude; I was prom king and was friends with a few dorky kids, but I don't know how different the Greek world will be. I kind of have this notion that if I get there and they are lame, maybe I can help turn the chapter around; might take a couple years after I'm gone, but I can help.
It seems that a lot of people focus on fitting with the particular chapter, is the national organization not as important?
I know it's possible that I a bid doesn't get offered, but I'm counting that in the unlikely column; I'm not just some lame taker, I actually have a bit to bring to the table (finances, network, girls, strong gpa). I know that none of that guarantees me anything, so not getting a bid is a background concern.
Thanks for sharing your insight!
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