Originally Posted by captain126 (Post 2177566)

I just graduated in May, but my girlfriend still has a year left of school. She has always wanted to be lavaliered, but we had not been dating for long and I wasn't ready to lavalier her before I graduated. I know that she feels like she is missing out because she was not lavaliered, and that part of her still wants me to lavalier her, even though I'm graduated.

I was wondering if it's acceptable for an alumni to lavalier a girl who is still in school? Or is that something that is somewhat taboo?

Also, if I were to lavalier her, would she be able to have a candle pass? Or would her sisters look down on it at all because I'm graduated? Would it be something that she would have to keep to herself, and if so, is it even worthwhile?

Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby (Post 2177568)

I have seen this done more than once, and it all depends on what your brothers would think and/or your campus traditions. From the sorority side, it is no different than if you were an undergraduate.