What would U do. HONESTLY
 

ok..Heres the deal. My cuz is getting married right. Ok She wants everyone to be happy so she is putting his two sisters(sorors) and his 2 brothers in the wedding. But, his half sister(daddy daughter) is bring HER sister(no relation) who he has slept with. And she wants to be in the wedding. My friend agreed because they are sorors and friends. Should I say something. I want to sooo bad because they just slept together last week. I mean really, THIS IS HER SOROR. Don't tell me that I should keep my mouth close because lets be serious http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/rolleyes.gif HOW MANY OF YALL WOULD ACTUALLY FORGIVE YOUR FAMILY IF THEY FOUND OUT U KNEW AND DIDN'T COME CLEAN?

You answered your own question!

TELL TELL TELL

This is no where close to the severity, but it is along the same lines.
My friend and I were dating two guys in the same fraternity. One night at a party, that she was not at, I saw her boyfriend kissing another girl. I decided it was best not to tell her, after all it's none of my business...right? Well he broke up with my friend shortly after that. Two days after the break-up one of his brothers came up to her and said "What did you say when Sarah(me) told you about him kissing that other girl." http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/redface.gif She came back to me and wanted to know why I hadn't told her. I told her I wanted to spare her feelings, and I honestly thought I was doing the right thing. UNTIL

That summer my boyfriend went home and so did my friend. I stayed at school for summer term. Every summer there is a huge festival down by the river. There are thousands of people who attend this event. They both went but not together. Then that fall he gave me a lavalier I was very excited. I told all my sisters at meeting and then went home and told her (she is not in my frat). She struggled with the words and finally told me that she had seen my boyfriend at the river with his ex. I was in total shock. I didn't say anything, I knew I had no room to be angry and I knew it was her private way of getting me back for keeping a secret from her. I know now why she was so angry with me. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/frown.gif
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he slept with that chick a week ago, and is now getting married to your cousin?!

i'd tell! and i'd probably be hated on by my cousin and whatever family members else for ruining the wedding, but i'd rather live with that than living with knowing i let my cousin go out like a punk.

Me too. Call me a hater if you want, but looking out for self and family is ALWAYS first priority.