Please help me.
 

For the longest time I have had my heart set on a single fraternity. However, when I came to Morgan and saw all the frats in real life, I gained an even greater appreciation for all of them. But I began to drift away from the one frat I wanted to join. I am at a lost at to who I would benefit with my talents and skills and need a little insight. I have the book and I have been doing my research for about 2 years now. But I'm still lost. If possible can you guys answer the following questions.

How do you approach a member and inquire about the fraternity?
How do you approach the idea of joining a fraternity?
What should I do in regards to wanting to join a fraternity?

And just to clarify. I am referring to the NPHC (Divine Nine) Frats.

Read this http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...d.php?t=119719

Then this http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...ad.php?t=87575

And finally this http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...ad.php?t=80249

There are other good threads about how to select and pursue an NPHC fraternity, but I truly don't remember any search terms for them.