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Cen1aur 1963 01-30-2012 04:28 PM

Fellas, what drew you to her and when did you know the time was right?
 
I met this one female a few weeks ago, but she is so cool, that I cut off the other females I was dating. The problem with me was that I was assuming that she was my girl, but recently she's been talking and responding to me like we're just kickin it. I'm going to have to finalize things with her, at least that's what it's looking like, to me. In all of my past relationships we started off kickin it, but then became exclusive as we kicked it. I never had to ask or let her know where I stood. I just made the assumption that they knew. It just worked its way out eventually.

Check it out, when you met you girl what was it that attracted you where you knew you wanted her to be your girl. For the females on here, feel free to chime in on what drew you in to dude.

iotamason 02-23-2012 11:46 AM

I was working at this office that just recently located to my area from Texas. I was working there for two months when a roup of new hires came in being trained. During my lunch break I was mesmerized by a woman who had skin as smooth as satin, her hair flowed like silk, with the face of an angel...walking talking angrily on her cell phone mad that she had to be back in the town she grew up in because her past job fell through. What attracted me most was the way she dressed that day... Working at a job where many of the women dressed as if I was at a hiphop club, she dressed more conservative..She was very business oriented and use to be a campaign organizer.
At first sight I knew i just met my future wife. I approached her, introduced myself, and did not hesitate to let her know that she was going to be Mrs. Iotamason... eleven months later she was taking my last name...

AlphaFrog 02-23-2012 11:58 AM

I'm in the "you just know" category as well. My husband and I were not even fluent in the same language when we met, but his eyes always said it all.

I'm sure if you ask my husband about me, it was my "joie de vivre". I'm goofy and love to laugh when I'm with people who get my quirky humor. I had several people like that at the restaurant job he and I met at, and I was constantly joking with co-workers and entertaining the customers. :)

cheerfulgreek 02-23-2012 01:59 PM

In the beginning.......

http://youtu.be/L4KQsPnz8Tw ;)

http://youtu.be/96gRJxIGa5A ;)

over 3 years later............

http://youtu.be/-HSAXTL4RRk :)

Cen1aur 1963 02-23-2012 03:24 PM

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Originally Posted by iotamason (Post 2127864)
I was working at this office that just recently located to my area from Texas. I was working there for two months when a roup of new hires came in being trained. During my lunch break I was mesmerized by a woman who had skin as smooth as satin, her hair flowed like silk, with the face of an angel...walking talking angrily on her cell phone mad that she had to be back in the town she grew up in because her past job fell through. What attracted me most was the way she dressed that day... Working at a job where many of the women dressed as if I was at a hiphop club, she dressed more conservative..She was very business oriented and use to be a campaign organizer.
At first sight I knew i just met my future wife. I approached her, introduced myself, and did not hesitate to let her know that she was going to be Mrs. Iotamason... eleven months later she was taking my last name...

LOL, this is good shit frat. It's one of those things that "you know when you know". You feel me? I think with my girl, I'm hoping she's "the one", but we're still trying to feel each other out. It's still early. I'm really feeling her though, I like her a lot.

AQAK, I forgot I even started this thread.

Greek_or_Geek? 02-23-2012 07:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Cen1aur 1963 (Post 2122145)
I met this one female a few weeks ago, but she is so cool, that I cut off the other females I was dating. The problem with me was that I was assuming that she was my girl, but recently she's been talking and responding to me like we're just kickin it. I'm going to have to finalize things with her, at least that's what it's looking like, to me. In all of my past relationships we started off kickin it, but then became exclusive as we kicked it. I never had to ask or let her know where I stood. I just made the assumption that they knew. It just worked its way out eventually.

Check it out, when you met you girl what was it that attracted you where you knew you wanted her to be your girl. For the females on here, feel free to chime in on what drew you in to dude.

I think referring to me as a woman instead of a female would be the first step in "knowing."

Cen1aur 1963 02-25-2012 01:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Greek_or_Geek? (Post 2127914)
I think referring to me as a woman instead of a female would be the first step in "knowing."

Females, women, girls, honies, I'm talking about the same thing. That's just my wording.

33girl 02-25-2012 03:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cen1aur 1963 (Post 2128165)
Females, women, girls, honies, I'm talking about the same thing. That's just my wording.

Aooow there, female
My my, but do you look swell


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=boX_w...eature=related

Cen1aur 1963 02-27-2012 07:32 AM

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Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 2128264)
Aooow there, female
My my, but do you look swell

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=boX_w...eature=related

You lost me with this.

33girl 02-27-2012 11:07 PM

He refers to women as females. (To which Dave Barry commented on what a woman might reply to those lyrics: "Gee, thank you male! Let's have sex relations!")

Cen1aur 1963 02-29-2012 02:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 2128711)
He refers to women as females. (To which Dave Barry commented on what a woman might reply to those lyrics: "Gee, thank you male! Let's have sex relations!")

ok/

DrPhil 02-29-2012 02:49 PM

I am not bothered by referring to women as "females" because "females" and "males" is used everyday in my personal and professional lives as much as "men" and "women" is used. Not every "female" is a "woman;" and vice versa. Most heterosexual men want their woman to have been born female, so it makes sense to use female as a surface-level qualifier.

I am however humored by people who have an issue with women being called "females" but they don't protest when women are called "girls" in so many NPC threads.

Cen1aur1963 deserves his balls kicked for even typing "girls" and "honies."


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